Condom's take away stimulation?

Question

Ok i don't need a lecture on the risks of unprotected s*x.

But me and my girlfriend get a bit carried away sometimes and we have unprotected s*x...I don't ejaculate I pull out and put on a condom before I do. I have never actually ejaculated before from s*x though, because once i put on a condom i can hardly even feel it! i even start to lose an erection after a while because the condom just takes away all stimulation. Without a condom it's amazing, but with one its just....yeh.

I've tried ultra-thins and theyre not much better.

has anyone else ever experienced anything like this? how did you solve it if at all..?

Answer 1

Have you been with any other girls before the one you're with now? And has your girlfriend been with anyone else? If not, then suggest the pill to your girlfriend. This way, you can have unprotected s*x but it is safe.

I would stop having unprotected s*x now if i were you. Even though you are pulling out before you ejaculate, pre-*** around your p***s can still get her pregnant.  

Answer 2

I understand what you're saying - my husband and I don't like condoms much either but what you are doing is much too risky.

How well do you know your girlfriend?

Is she disease-free?

Are you?

Like someone else mentioned earlier, pre-ejaculate can and will impregnate a fertile female.

So be more careful next time!

Answer 3

You know what I hate most of all? Well, when my fingers are all slippery, lubed up .. whatever.... there is no way I can open the stupid wrappers! They're bloody near impenetrable. If the condom was made of the same stuff that wrappers were made of there is no way a woman could get pregnant.. lol.

Anway, I often lose my erection just fumbling around with the stupid condom wrapper rather than getting into the frows of my excitement... and all this.. Ive had a vasectomy... so Im using a condom for "safe s*x".

Oh it is safe alright... .there is nothing safer than making a guy spend half the night trying to open a condom packet with slippery hands!

And you think you have problems... you got nothing to complain about mate... at least you are getting further than me with the darn things.

Answer 4

I take your point that they do tend to spoil the party, but when you think about the alternatives, they don't seem too bad do they.?