Confidence help please?

Question

how come i feel so much less confident going to school?

on weekends when i'm going out i feel pretty and confident of my body, but on weekdays i look in the mirror before school

and i feel fat and ugly. why is this?

Answer 1

first of all, don't expect to feel the same way every weekday. a new outfit and good hair help. just remember, someone loves you for you, and no one should judge you for your appearance. "i am beautiful, no matter what they say..."  

Answer 2

i actaully feel the oppistie. look i dont know how to explain it. i forced my thinkning into people are going to look at me. judge whats wrong and move on. think about yourself. you look at someone. judge whats wrong then move on. 98% people prob do that. and if someones thinking something and you dont know it. whos that hurting most def. not you. and thats what your worried about.  

Answer 3

remind yourself that it's just stupid teenage hormones. I feel the same all the time.

Also, think realistically. More than likely, you know you're not fat. Take a picture of yourself, and look at it. Critique it as if you were looking at some random person- fat or skinny? It'll help you see yourself as you are.

Answer 4

the same thing happens to me..I'm sorry you feel this way =\ if you wanna talk just message me

Answer 5

becuse you feel better with your friends and your thinking more fun where at school we are sadly comparing ourselves alot to others

i feel the same sometimes 2.

if u ever need some anonymous help

u can always message me....i give great beauty tips=)

lol  

Answer 6

I am the same way. I think it's because I wanna look nice and try extra hard to fit in. I feel better on the weekends because I am with my friends but during the week you are sometimes in classes where you don't know anyone and you want to make a good impression. Lots of girls at school have a lot of money to spend to look nice and they make other girls feel self conscious sometimes.

Answer 7

You may be feeling this way because at school there are so many people there who are known to judge others. Dont compare yourself to anyone else. Be proud of what you have and flaunt it. I also feel uglier in the morning when I am still tired. Get a lot of sleep and keep a good diet. Best wishes!