Confidence why is it important to the female, when there more than hundred values that define a man.?

Question

(The guys who have worse luck dating are the ones who lack confidence. Alas, the bad boys often are confident so tend to do better. Just about anyone is going to be more drawn to someone who is confident and self assured (no matter what they look like) than someone insecure, shy, having low self esteme ect.) LIfe should be simple. There a lot to write about here like if you don't love yourself you can't love others or if not your in denial. If your shy, you suffer more it has merit but is it a fact. What if your afraid total fear women do you live in a home and just die as slow a tree. I often felt this way when I served the military dieing as slow as a tree. No one but your self to talk to. Question why we need to show confidence or talk it, if I can run 2 miles in 12 mins and lift my own weigh and put myself through school, to mention a few see me for me wouldn't everyone consume to live that way.

Answer 1

Im a L*****n so I dont know but people are conditioned to think men must be a certain way, and women must be a certain way, those people are ingorant and will get bought back to reality pretty quickly when they realize the stupid stereotypes they believe arent true

Answer 2

Women don't like wimps.

Answer 3

i agree

women don't like wimps

but they like when your sensitive and they want you to listen to what they have to say

and if there's something going on with you they'd like you to talk about it with them