Confuse? Advise on Love?

Question

I'm confuse about my own relationship , I know that sounds bad but i really am. I mean i know that all relationship is not as easy as a walk in the park, but isn't there a circumstance when enough is enough? though i know that my boyfriend loves me i still ask questions because theres so many things i dont get about him, he doesnt open up to me like he used to and at times i get so fed up, I try so hard to keep our relationship together and thats because of how much i love him. I mean hes done so many things for me and i repay that but what i dont get is why i keep asking myself "when will i finally give up"? I mean i dont want to give up on him because he needs me as much as i need him. I just need advise i guess on how to handle my relationship better. because i dont want to loose the only person who keeps me up my feet, the only person who makes me happy.

Answer 1

I feel the same way. Don't worry about a thing. It's not a bad thing to be confused about your own relationship. A lot of people are that  way.

It's okay. Trust me. I bet you guys will be together forever no matter what. That's what I always tell myself about me and my bf. i been confused about out relationship. its gonna be ok. I promise you.

Answer 2

First of all, you shouldnt NEED that person to be happy. You can want them, you can enjoy them, you can be absolutely thrilled they are in your life, but you dont NEED them. If they died, if you broke up, life would go on. Itd suck, but itd continue.

Second, you need to learn to love yourself before youc an love others. You dont need someone else to keep you on your feet, you are the only person that can do that. You dont need someone else to make you happy, you are the only person that can do that.

Before saying "I love you" one must first learn to say "I"