Confused about EX ? Ladies Please Help?

Question

Okay heres the deal, My ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago, she didnt want to talk to me or hear from me. Yesterday her credit card bill came to my house (its under my address) so i texted her and let her know and for some reason she was polite and nice. I asked if she wanted to meet me at starbucks so I can give it to her she said okay but for me to not get any ideas about us getting together. We met up talked about life school work everything but us and she left. Now 45 min later she calls me and asks my help to pay her bill online. She would never call me, never did call me in the last 3 weeks and she was tellin me not to call her. I helped her of course, 20 min later after that she told me it would be best not to talk to each other and if i could drop one of my classes i have with her. Im thinking she dont want to see me because everytime she sees me her feelings come back and she doesnt want taht. Why else would she want to meet me after not wanting to talk to me or CALL ME when she would neverrrr call ???

Answer 1

She just wants money.

Answer 2

She is confused and so she is confusing you.  However she had made it pretty clear she won't be getting back together with you so take her on her word and try to move on.  If she doesn't want to see you so bad, perhaps SHE should drop the class. She sounds incredibly selfish so you are lucky she is moving on. :)

Answer 3

I'm sorrry but shes over you, she came so she duoesnt get a bad rating coz she needed her bill 2 pay it . thats it. shez moved on, or else she wouldve called b4, and the fact that she doesnt wanna be in the same class as u means she is uncomfortable next to her ex, many girls are like this, i am.... she did her business, needed ur help with internet transfer, thats it, im sorry, find someone else and move on mate, thats all u can do. good luck  

Answer 4

Move on. This girl  doesn't want a relationship, she wants someone to catch her when she is about to fall(having difficulties) Keep your head up and your wallet closed

Answer 5

I didn't get that you actually paid the bill, but that you helped HER pay the bill.  If she had you pay, you are definitely being used and I'd drop her as a friend as well as an ex.  But you had a connection and she thought you could help.  For whatever reason, you still press a certain button for her and she doesn't want to go through the pain of seeing you right now.  It is soon after the break-up and emotions can still be running high.  Give some time to pass, but don't get used.

Answer 6

it sounds like she was trying to use you to help her pay her bill, which is pretty messed up. you can do better than that, forget about her and find someone who will appreciate you. lifes too short.