Confused and in need of help?

Question

I totally feel like a guy. I am just going into high school. When I was a bit younger I was a huge tomboy. I kinda changed my appearance. I dress a little more feminine. I feel like a have to protect girls. I find them attractive. I really have little interest in guys. I would want to take care of a girl, and have a girlfriend. I would do anything in the world for them. I am starting to have feelings for this girl I know. Before, I even think of saying anything to her, I want to get rid of my acne, glasses, and braces. They should all be gone by the beginning of September. I'm quite strong and masculine. I've had a boyfriend before, and it was okay. But, I am more interested in girls. What do I do? I feel very confused?

Answer 1

You're likely to be a L*****n or at least bisexual.

This doesn't mean you're a guy! There are loads of butcher, more masculine women out there who simply are attracted to other women. You are your own person. Who cares if you are a bit of a tomboy??

Be yourself, that's the best advice anyone can give you! You seem to kind of understand who you are even though you say you're confused - it seems fairly evident you like girls no matter whether you're bisexual or L*****n. You need to accept yourself - if getting rid of the braces etc will help boost your confidence then great.

Then you can make a move on this girl, but be prepared for getting knocked back. Obviously there are many girls out there who wouldn't dream of dating another girl, no matter how attractive/amazing that girl is! Good Luck :)

Answer 2

Hmm I was pretty much exactly like you when I was younger and have now openly embraced that I'm bi. It took me a while to accept that I was, but it was a huge relief to finally be honest with myself. You don't have to do anything right away, and it may be better to work out your feelings before you do anything like a move on a girl. I'm in the same situation with a girl I like, but you need to find out her opinon on g*y/bi relationships before you make a move.

Best of luck, hope it all works out

Answer 3

mm_rox... there is nothing unnatural about L*****n sexuality.

It sounds to me like your primary attraction is women. And that's fine. there's nothing wrong with that. I don't think you are transsexual, because you don't seem to be uncomfortable with your anatomy. Feeling a need to be protective of another woman isn't strictly a "guy" thing. It's simply the way you, as a woman, respond to another woman. It's part of who you are. Embrace it.

Glasses shouldn't be a problem. Lot's of people wear them. If contacts make you more comfortable, then fine. Acne, well, time and treatment will take care of that. And braces, well, again, time is the key there. But don't think of the braces as something that make you unattractive, but as a tool that will eventually make you more attractive.

I wish you the best.

Answer 4

Ask her out in september,

it seems like you've got it all figured out!

yeah im pretty sure your not str8 if you havent figured that out already lol.

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Answer 5

Kathryn, my advice to you is to get rid of braces, acne, and glasses unless you look good in them, and push yourself to be interested in guys, because natural sexuality is so much more rewarding.