Confused big time...?

Question

My boyfriend brings up marriage and says he wants to be with me forever and that he loves me more than he loves himself...hes asked me what i would say if he asked me to marry him, I just tell him theres only 1 way to know...and i leave it at that...when people bring up marriage, he says hes asked me but that I've said no...which isn't true..he knows that i love him very much and i deny that i've said no to marriage when he says that...I'm 26 weeks pregnant and wasn't sure how he would react about the baby until he reassured me that he wants to be a father...does this mean he wants marriage or not? How do I find out what his intentions are? Asking me what my answer would be to marriage isn't a proposal right? Please help me as best you can and thanks in advance for your advice and answers!

Answer 1

lol, that's wierd.

how about you tell him you want to marry him and spend the rest of your life w/ him and start a family...and maybe then he'll propose. He's probably just scared of doing it cuz it's such a big deal, but let him know how much u care for him so he won't worry about ur answer or what you might be thinking.

Answer 2

His asking the question if you would say yes isn't technically a proposal. However, I'd imagine that asking a girl to marry them and fearing rejection is pretty big.. maybe especially to him. I would try talking to him that him telling people you've refused his "proposal" is confusing you. My guess is there's a lot going on inside his head and he's just trying to process everything the best he can. (guys suck at that in general) Telling him "there's only one way to know" most likely causes him to have doubts. Congrats on the baby!

Answer 3

the fact that he brought up marriage proves his love 4 u girl.believe me 4 a guy to propose is extraordinary.so dont play hard 2 get or u might live 2 regret it.

Answer 4

He's trying to ask you without asking you. I admire you for holding your ground and I hope you continue. He needs to muster up the guts and ask you for your hand in marrage and only then should you give him an answer. Let's hope he puts more into your possible marrage than he has with his lame proposal attempt.  

Answer 5

begin a conversation about marriage, weddings, etc. and ask him if he sees you two tying the knot anytime soon.