Confusion.....advice would help! ?

Question

male advice please! about a man!! help!?

known him since I was 21 and lost contact! but years ago we used to meet up and really click. Talk about everything and anything for hours! until 5am the next day! once he told me he loved me but I was a bit of a ***** and we never got together.

Years on (I am 30 now!) as of tues!! and he text me happy birthyday! I have always missed him.....I actually said are you about this weekend? but its bank holiday....and he said ''seeing as its bank holiday, Im away for the weekend, but I am back tuesday we can hook up when Im back''

Im nice girl / woman (trust me) and dont sleep around etc and only want a future with someone special I can have a future with! not sure If I am 110% wanting marriage and kids like some women! but any advice you can give about this man and how I should play it would really help me!! thanks x*x

Answer 1

You haven't said his circumstances but as it's bank holiday and he's away I'm guessing he has a partner. did he explain why he sent the text?

You said it has been years since you last saw him so many things will have changed in that time. He is probably not the man you knew back when. I get an impression you are looking for more than he is and you are living a bit on the memories of him and not the present day facts.

By all means get to know him again but go slow and careful or you could end up badly hurt.

Answer 2

Aww

I think you should give him a try

He sounds like a really nice guy and you sound like a really nice women from the way you explained that you could talk for ages and most men these days they just want you for s*x.

No joke. :)

If you do try him out then if he is the guy for you then he will understand if your not ready for the whole settling down thing x

Answer 3

im nat male but hope i still help!!

wel ur nat goin 2 no unless u giv it a try... even if it dose go pear shaped after a while, at least u tryed an u'l no u didnt mess up!