Yes..i am 19, and still I am being told how to dress (no shorts or tank tops), how to behave (e.g. must sit up straight with head up), when to come back home, when to go to church etc.
I have had a few close ups with some girls, but could never take it to a relationship level for fear of my parents. In the end, it destroys even my friendship with them. I can't even confidently talk to new girls now, becuase of fear of my parents. I also have a brother 11 years younger than me- so whatever I do, I must "not set a bad example"- that means living like an 8 year old. I want my own life. I want my happiness. I am miserable. I have brought it up with my parents that I am not so conservative in my views, then they told me that I would go to h**l if I deviate from their path.
Regarding dating: i can't have any girlfriends, I can't go out with girls without letting my parents know, i can't have s*x before marriage, and I can't stay later than 10 pm with a girl.
I am not an adult even though my biological age says so =(.
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