I have a massive problem ladies and gentleman. Get ready for it...it's long.
I am 19 now, and have pretty much totally transformed myself. In high school, i was VERY socially awkward. very bad. And I lived double lives....at soccer 4-5 times a week i was 'the man'. everyone loved me, thought i was outgoing, funny as h**l, etc. In high school i was a complete unconfident loser.
Anyway, enough about that. I am pretty good socially now....better then alot of people i'd say. I just have this problem with constant negativity.
It's nothing mental...it's all physical. I think I'm ugly. I literally obsess over it and that's ALL i think about. Honestly, i have my mental aspect all worked out. i know what i want to do, i know what i need to do to achieve it, etc. Now, i'm working on the physical.
you see, i have a twin brother who looks somewhat similiar to me i guess heh (we are fraternal).....he has girls saying he is hot all the time and ****. Logic should tell me that since he's "hot", that i'm "hot" also. but i dont....i still think i'm ugly like i was in high school (in retrospect, i think i was heheh). I cant remember much from high school (blocked it out) but i remember i used to get many girls in juniour high, but in high school everything changed. I don't know.
I'm constantly scared to have real relationships with people (both male and female) because of a simple fear of getting called ugly. honestly, i stress over it. i know it sound superficial but i don't care.
What CAN i do to get over this? I need to get over this....this is a massive burden it's getting hard to live with this.
Someone please help me.
P.S - it's VERY weird that i think i'm ugly. i'm literally very tall and very muscular. I mean logic is telling me if my brother's good looking, then i must be at least decent. we are twins. Most people say we look like brothers (me older for some reason). i get alot of girls taht come up to me in very superficial situations (bars/clubs) but i am still scared of my past (high school).
Someone...please.
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