Controversial issue?

Question

Now see, I have a problem with society today. Especially with girls my age and the subject about RAPE. Every pregnancy question I stumble upon is always about a girl getting pregnant at about 14 years of age and blaming it on RAPE. I find it completely ridicilous because they chose to have s*x and they're finding a reason to deny it. In some ways, I believe, they are finding a way to make them feel better. Maybe, just maybe, they can't admit they had s*x and forgot to use protection.

Look at all of the celebrities! Once the issue came up that rape is going up, some adults said that their UNCLE molested/raped them. Honestly, what the heck? They have enough money!

What do you think?

Is rape used as an excuse too much now?

Answer 1

Yes, but if you say anything about it being false, you'll get a hard time about it.  People do stupid things all the time.  Just don't let them mess you up.

Answer 2

No, I just think that you are a closed-minded 14 year old girl. Rape is serious and not a joke or an excuse at all. You need to grow up a little

Answer 3

If a girl is only 14, isn't it "statutory rape" for a man 18 or older to have s*x with her?  A man should know this and stay away from underage girls.  Even if they want to consent, the law says they are not mature enough to consent to s*x at age 14.

If the boy is underage, it's a little different, then yes, it would be a "he says" "she says" story.

One thing I personally detest:  If the s*x act has started, I don't think the woman can scream rape and make the man stop immediately.  She consented and she should let him finish, unless he's beating her up, and then I don't know what she should do.  She can get him on "assault," but not on "rape."

Answer 4

i think yea a lot is miss use of the term rape by outright lieing but there are a lot of guenuine cases but yes i seen it girls put poor guys away that didnt deserve it

Answer 5

i dont think so but i dont think its something you play dont  around with