Conundrum...be truthful please?

Question

i rarely get asked out...and the guys that i like always look at me like a little sister...my question is...is it because I'm unattractive?please be truthful...even if its mean

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Answer 1

As a guy, what I can tell you is that there are numerous reasons why you might not get asked out.  I don't think that you being unattractive is amongst them.

I'm not sure I can think of what you mean by saying guys look at you like a little sister, as for obvious reasons I haven't experienced that, lol.  The most obvious possibility though is that your actions might tend to put you in the old clichéd "friend zone."  This may be because of tom-boyish actions, or just because you already get along with all the guys pretty well.   The other major possibility is that you're shy or something - if you're very introspective, or get nervous when guys talk to you we tend to think you don't want to talk to us, and so rather talk to girls who are more outspoken.  I guess this last one's more of a guess though - extrapolating from my experience of girls talking to me :(.

Answer 2

You are pretty. The only reason guys look at girls just as a sister or family, is because you probably act tomboyish. Guys think of me the same way.