I have a horrible time asking questions in general conversation.
I was raised in one of those "women are to be seen, not heard" and "speak only when spoken to" homes, so I have it ingrained that if someone wants me to know, they'll tell me.
I have a hard time finding the line between nosiness and interest, and I think it makes people think I'm self-centered when they ask me questions and I answer, but I don't ask them questions in fear of seeming intrusive.
I don't want them to think I'm disinterested or careless, but I don't want them to think I'm nosy.
This has created a gigantic problem for me in communication.
If anyone can point out the line between interest and nosiness, or if anyone has this same problem, I'd appreciate replies.
Hm... thanks.
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