Conversation starters?

Question

i havent had a boyfriend in a longgg time & ive found that im really starting to get sick of being single.

school's started and idk, i just want a couple of ideas on how to approach and talk to guys [i havent really tried in while]

i just want a simple way to strike up a conversation without seeming desperate.

any advise??

also any advice in actually finding a good boyfriend??

thanks so much =]

Answer 1

A good boyfriend is about as rare as a rainbow with a pot of gold at the end! As far as convo starters, boys like sports so with football season starting talk about a recent game(if you watched it) or ask if there are any classes/sports they like. If they dress nice, ask where they got such a cool outfit from. If any school events are coming up, ask them what they think about it. Hopefully this will get you started, good luck!

Answer 2

  i wouldn't worry about finding a boyfriend if i was you. you just started back up in school and i would worry more about your studies then about having a boyfriend

Answer 3

Ask him what's his favorite position.

Answer 4

I like "this or that" questions. :]

They help you learn about the person you ask them to, and the person being asked feels like he/she is playing a game with you. As long as you don't take it to a personal extent, you don't sound like a stalker.

Good examples (very casual, not prying):

Coke or Pepsi?

Paper or plastic?

Cat or dog?

Tetris or PacMan?

Mac or PC?

Bad examples (getting into deep topics that can be sensitive for some people):

Republican or Democrat?

Christian or Jewish?

Pro-war or anti-war?

It's a great way to start off a conversation, and it's worked for me in the past so yeah. Make sure not to use it too much (unless the other person uses it as well), because too many questions make you sound like an interrogator.

Good luck. : D

Answer 5

just make it simple

like hows life or something?

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Answer 6

well start of with clothing. ask them what it is or complement it. same thing for hair. And also since its school you can ask for help. Or have your friends introduce you to someone you like

Answer 7

Start off with...

Gosh, i can't find any classes...

or,

are you new? ..

and if you don't do any of those, drop a pencil. lol.

(lmao, kenton.)

Answer 8

start by saying something like hi or something like cool shoes  and make them notice you in a  certain way hope it helped.

Answer 9

good luck hun, i think most of em are pigs. but if you know much about the guy, start talking about something he is interested in. but educate yourself on it a little so you don't sound dumb about the matter lol. then once he starts talking about himself, just relax, cuz they love that c**p! (talking about themselves) ohhh see the above answers, i TOLD YOU most are pigs!

Answer 10

Be your self, be confident, and be happy.

Answer 11

If you see a guy you like just try to run into him and ask his name and what his major is or whatnot.  If you share a class, just sit next to him and talk to him about the class and eventually about personal stuff.  Simple chatter will eventually become conversations and you can ask for his number.

Answer 12

To start, ask your friends which guys they think are truly good people. Dating a jerk might satisfy a thrill, but it makes for a bad relationship.

You might have an easy time meeting guys through other connections, such as class or other friends. Maybe your friends could introduce you to some new guys? Before you get the introduction, do a little research. Ask him if he's doing baseball again this year, or how his science project is coming along.

Up until you start kissing, dating is pretty much meeting a new friend. If you have to, pretend he's a girl.

Answer 13

go up to a guy that you find attractive, stare into his eyes deeply yet softly, and whisper "i want you to make love to me."

Answer 14

just talk to them like you would your friends

Answer 15

just a simple hey.

and your name.

and you could be like "do you know where this room is."

and theyll be like "right there."

and youll be like "thanks, see you around." and then smile. and then when you see him again talk to him

Answer 16

:] Try meeting new people.

Or got your eye on the boy seated next to you.

Say, "Ungh. I hate this class. Mr/Mrs/Ms ____ is such a bore."

Or if he's really nice, "I like your shoes."

It depends on what type of guy he is.