Conversations end up being dead and embarrassing! HELP?

Question

how do i stop messing up my convo's with everybody because i am so afraid of saying what i want otherwise it is stuttery when i do!!!

Answer 1

Read a book about making conversation or being popular. Your local library or book store will have a large selection. Also, try to focus on the other person. The more you do that , the less you will worry about your own presentation. The more relaxed you are, the more appelaing you will be to others.  

Answer 2

self confidence

Answer 3

Are you having social anxiety and/ or panic attacks when talking to people? If so that is a matter in itself. You may have social anxieties or a phobia. That requires seeking professional help (a doctor or psychiatrist). But if this is not the case then I advise you to try breathing, relaxing, and being more confident in yourself when talking to people. They are just people. Just like you. It's really not a big deal. Just tell yourself that. It will take practice to become a good conversationalist and to build the confidence within yourself to be good at talking to people so just keep that in mind and be easy on yourself.

It's all about confidence if it's not social anxieties or phobias. But you may still want to check that out.

I wish you the BEST!