Convince my girlfriend to have s*x with me?

Question

I have been dating her for a long while, and i feel we are in love. We openly talk about s*x, but she is still hesitant. She admits to wanting to have s*x with me, but her friends and family have told her to wait. She is sort of on the fence, and I want to tip her toward my way of thinking. I want to further express my love for her. How can I convince her to have s*x with me?

Answer 1

you should tell her this and tell her that she doesn't have to if she doesn't want to and that she should listen to herself and you shouldn't have to convince her to have s*x with you she will when she is ready.

Answer 2

You do realise its hard for a girl and anyway if you really like her propose to her and if she says yes then its all ok.

Answer 3

Sorry but you cant convince her when she is ready she is ready and will most probably blow your mind. So just wait for her dont push her or talk about it until she wants to.. because you trying to convince her will most probably push her away.. Whats the big rush anyway.... If you love her enough as you say you do you need to have the respect to wait for her.....  

Answer 4

take her out to a really nice dinner

and just be a super lovey dovey romance guy and maybe she'll tip to u

Answer 5

HA!

Marry Her.

Answer 6

If you had any skills as a lover, you woundn't have to convince her. She would want it and take it when she wanted it. Wait until she is ready. Once you learn how to turn her on properly, there won't be any question. You have to be able to make her climax with her clothes still on before you can get them off.

Answer 7

I think if you have to convince her then shes not ready, and if you really loved her you would wait too. If you don't want to wait then maybe your not with the right person. Think about why your pushing her into having s*x when shes not.

Answer 8

Of course your girlfriend is going to listen to her family. They've known her her entire life, they know her better and they truly love her. Why should she listen to you? This poor girl is caught in the middle and all you can think about is getting laid. If your family told you not to sleep with your girlfriend but she was saying the opposite, who would you listen to?

Don't you think it's sick that you're trying to "convince" your girlfriend to sleep with you? s*x is something that should only happen when there is mutual understanding between partners, so if your girlfriend is not ready to sleep with you then you should respect her decision and shut up. Let your girlfriend make up her own mind. Just because you're ready to have s*x doesn't mean she is. Be a man and stop being so selfish.

Answer 9

say you want a baby. Get erections when you hug her harcore to express you're love

Answer 10

you must NOT try to convince her. she will feel rushed and pressured and will want to do it with you less. men never understand how females work do they? you must realize and take into account how she feels. NEVER rush a woman. x

Answer 11

um....so your ready and she's not

maybe you should just wait,

just because she want to doesnt mean she's going to.

Answer 12

If you truly love and respect her, you'll wait for as long as you need to.

Answer 13

you cannot convince anyone to have s*x. if you push her too much, she will think you want her because of her body and she would be resistant. Just go with the flow, and dont press for things. As for yourself, do try and m********e regularly!!

Answer 14

The worst thing u can do is try and  convince her to have s*x with u  ....  Give her the time she needs and don't pressure her to much  ... if u do u pressure might end up losing her ... show her u care by a simple unexpected bunch of flowers  

Answer 15

If you love her you will let her decide on her own. Tell her when she's ready it is okay. If you just want to bone her, you are a sad man.

Answer 16

u want to express ur love like this??????????? Mr. u need to respect her feelings if u feel like having s*x tell her u want it if she says no then go to washroom shag it and come back. or control ur desire.

y cant u guys wait in a relationship.  y r u alwys keen to hit the sack asap.  u need to give her time and BTW u love her the way she is if u r loving her just for s*x u need to move on dude and let her find some1 good............. not good better than u.  she deserves much better than u.

Answer 17

If you truly love her the way you say you do, then you'll wait until she comes around. If she feels like she's being pushed in any way, then it can backfire, and cause major problems. Also, if a girl feels like she's not rushed into things she will love you and respect you so much more. Besides if she's openly talked about it, then it shouldn't be long anyway before curiosity gets to her.

Answer 18

If she doesn't want to, don't hassle her. Wait for her to make her own mind up. If you pressurize her too much things could take a turn for the worst.

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