Could I really be that unlucky?

Question

Since I was little I have been really unlucky. I have had cluster headaches and sudden pains. I have teeth and eye problems. And I always seem to get hit somehow. I was in the pool once and a friend in the same grade as me jumped on my neck. Quite a few times I have been hit in the head like today in the pool I was kicked in the head so hard I thought I would faint. I also have a breathing problem so when I start to swim slow during tag I am made fun of. I am always it for a long time in tag and other stuff and when I do tag someone they complain it's unfair.Today I got hit so many times I was bleeding. I drowned many times only having to swim back up so I don't get stepped on. I say "why is my life horrible!" underwater often. My mom yells at me for stuff my brother did. She yells at me all day and night for being lazy even though I'm out all day! And when I need to stay home and help she just yells at me for being mean to my friends for telling them I can't go out and then starts yelling that I should go ahead and leave. Then yells "why are you going out, you need to help.

I am so unlucky I took a saying of Princess Kaiulani's as my own motto: "I guess I wasn't born under a lucky star" put some extra words on and here is my motto:

"I guess I wasn't born under a lucky star though everyone around me has the best of luck" Am I really unlucky?

Answer 1

Your life isn't the best but neither is it the worst, so in some ways try to see the good things. Realize too that you are going through a growing up stage and it won't be forever. In a few years you'll have more maturity and perhaps better friends, and your mom will not be scolding you as much once you take charge of your own life.

Best to look forward and dream of the things you'd like to have in your life in a few years from now. Plan for the good years ahead!

Good luck.

Answer 2

why don't you start to focus on something good . I woke up this morning , didn't forget how to breath , gotta roof over my head, a computer to type on , cloths to wear, dog to pet, brain to think, mouth to express opinions , ideas to try out , a Friend to call,  parents to like or dislike , according to this you are luckier and richer than 58% of the world . Life is what you make it . Just some advise stay out of the pool .  

Answer 3

Are you writing a book?  Perhaps if your life is so unlucky you could write a book, and change its ending to a happy one therefore symbolically changing the fate of your life! Really, consider writing a book, it would be awesome (perhaps about mermaids, since you write a lot about your experiences in the water).

Answer 4

Once you get older theres a whole life ahead of you. If you keep it in your mind that your unlucky- then youll be unlucky because you expect it,. but if you say to yourself that you will become normal or lucky and say it to yourself so you believe it, then youll become lucky. Its mind over matter. With your mum, i know how you feel because thats what my mum used to do to me- confused me alot. But im now 17. been living by myself for a year, and consider myself pretty lucky because of my great friends. But i used to think that i was unlucky and i hated my life. I was depressed and suicidal. Please just look forward to finishing school, get good grades then be in charge of your own life

:) goodluck

Answer 5

NOPE...............its not true, its happen with many persons too ...........so do not worry...............you are so young to understand subject of horrble.............if you get hurt, hit or kicked..........it doesnot mean that you are UNLUCKY..............people are loosing many things in their life, but never feels that they are unlucky..................please make your mind that what ever happens in life it might be coincident.........not for that you are Unlucky...............but even though if you feel so ....................do one thing that at early morning speak 50 times that I AM NOT UNLUCKY-I AM NOT UNLUCKY.................than see the result.....................you will be fine with your concept that you are unlucky......................

Answer 6

There are others who have suffer much more than you, so you are a lucky one than others  

Answer 7

Well you might be unlucky but always remember that only you can change your fate.

It won't all happen at once but if you try you can do anything.