Could anyone give me advice on snooty grandmother?

Question

I have a problem. My step grandmothers in town (my dad remarried, and she's my stepmom's mother) and I absolutely cant stand the woman. She tries to tell my dad and step mom how to parent me, my brothers, and my step sisters. She thinks that my stepsisters are angels and that me and my brother are the trouble makers. (even though it's the other way around.) My step sisters are always in trouble and fighting with my parents and being mean to them, yet my step grandma sees right through them. There is constantly yelling and screaming at my house, to the point where the cops have even been called a couple times, due to the bickering getting violent. I want to tell my step grandmother off, but at the same time I know that she is my elder and I should respect her, no matter how much of a snooty old woman she is. I just want to end the fighting, and I find myself in the middle of all the drama!

Any advice on how to get it to stop?

Answers are greatly appreciated ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Answer 1

I to have a step grandmother and she does get in the way but i also tell her that she needs to give the family space .

Answer 2

you should just talk to your grandma tell her exactly what you just told me. tell her that you really dont mean to be mean but that you hate it when she tells you that you are a troublemaker that everyone is a troublemaker sometimes even your stepsisters. just talk to her she will understand

good luck :)