Could anyone suggest me?

Question

Hi i have written EAMCET exam for the third time this year,but i didn't get a MEDICAL seat my dad's dream is to see me as a doctor,i am also interested in doing MEDICINE but now i am unable to decide what to do can i go for long term again,but i can't play with my parents' faith in me for the 4th time plz help me to take the right decision

Answer 1

dear megha

In the  life there arew always two way junction where you have to decide something -bole to sollid. First thing is NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.work wholeheartedly like ARJUN of MAHAABHARAT who could see only the eye of a bird.

secondly,think whether you are really interested in medicine field or only due to your parents' wish you want to take exam.first of all be clear from your side.Every one has her own future.convince parents also that only to go to medical is not the ultimate mission and that's not true also.

Iam a father of a daughter,With very good marks score in her 12(with maths group and not tthe biology) , she opted own city govt. engg.college where she can go by scooter and can live  with mummy for maximum time. We accepted.We all are happy

Reply me whatever you decide.

pkdave

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Answer 2

The most important thing is for you to be honest with your parents and tell them your true feelings. It's no point re-taking the exam if your heart is not in it. You will never do well and even if you do pass and get a seat, you will not be happy in the field for long. If your passion is not in it, no matter how hard you try you will always feel emptiness and void. You must remember to 'study' for yourself, not for your parents or someone else. It is then that you will excel in your ambition.

Good luck.

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