Could i ever be happy living the straight life even though i am g*y?

Question

i am still feeling quite conflicted within,even though i am only 15 i want love in my life,i gave up the g*y life 7 months ago just to be closer to god and prevent my father from finding out about me(i think he already knows though)i have not been in a straight relationship in about 4 years and i dont think i want to be in one again,seeing that fact that i am g*y.i experience real g*y love and i enjoyed it,but can i ever be happy without it?

Answer 1

Whats wrong with being g*y? nothing!

Answer 2

NO. Dont pretend to be someone your not. If your g*y live a g*y life if your not, then dont.

Answer 3

It would be like going through life wearing size 9 shoes when you're a size 10. You can do it, but it'll never be comfortable and will never feel quite right.

Answer 4

Tried the straight life for sometime & didn't work for me.  The homosexual feelings never left.  Don't try to be something you are not!

Answer 5

You have to be who you are, man.

Answer 6

Honestly I think it's pretty cool that you're g*y. I always wanted a g*y friend:) If you're g*y i don't think you should go straight because it's who you are. But if you really want to be straight. You will still probably enjoy straight love but just not as much as the g*y love. I hope i helped and best of luck to you and your new life :)

Answer 7

You probably can't be happy without truly loving yourself, which means embracing your sexuality.  

Answer 8

yeah ofcourse u can, yo man, its doesnt matter what ppl say, ppl cant decide what u can or cant do, anything is possible, especially with god, so stick with him and u will find ur happiness, you can bet on it and god will bless u for it.

Answer 9

You can't avoid your natural sexuality.I think alot of people forget that sexuality is natural.Just be your self.Your g*y stop living your life for other people because in the end when you die or before you die you'll question yourself and ask if your happy and you'll say no  because your hiding your ttrue feelings.

Answer 10

In my opinion, if you feel that you have a good relationship with God, then you must feel in your heart what he's trying to tell you. I know a lot of people would call me a hypocrite about this but----to me---God made everyone in their own unique way and that he wants us all to be happy in life, so I'm not against Love. Love is love, wherever you find it. K, Take care!=]  

Answer 11

I'm wondering if you realize God created you for a 'reason'...and that, possibly, you cannot 'do' what you are supposed to do is you aren't the person He created you to be?  I would encourage you to be the best person He created you to be...if that is as a g*y man, then so be it.  Repressing your sexual orientation will only result in lots of psychological problems later...  You know who and what you are...be the best at who and what you are and let everyone else be the best of who and what they are...

Answer 12

Do you really want that question answered? Well, you'll find out on your own, but you seem pretty miserable already and you are just thinking about it.

Do you think it is worth it to drag an unsuspecting woman down misery road with you?

Living a farce is not easy, and never satisfying.

Answer 13

You can't not enjoy life without true love. True love for yourself and true love for someone you actually feel attracted to.  

Answer 14

Im not g*y or L*****n but I think your the only one who can answer that question. If your truely g*y then in my opinion I dont think you'll ever be happy in the way you would want to be. I mean...you would be living a lie and I dont think that's ever satisfying, even if it does work out for the time being. Which of course i can't compare at all and I don't know what your going through but basically just like anything else... If you can't do what you love then how can you be happy? Im sure you still can be "happy" in a sense, I mean don't feel like lifes a drag now but Im just saying basically.. that I dont think your going to feel that one feeling of complete satisfaction, and love if you can't be who you are.... I dont know like I said I have no idea what your going through and im sure only you know the real answer to that butttt ummmm  I hope things work, with which ever way you decide to live.

Ps. Don't change who are for one person, even if it kills you. Even if its your Dad, because like you said even though you feel this will get you closer to God, you have to think ...didn't God also create you this way? He obviously did for a reason. So I mean be you. Live life.