Could it be the love of my life?

Question

I had a huge crush on this girl in high school and she felt the same for me. I was a year older than her so when I went to college my first year we did not talk as much. She went to college after graduation and we sort of lost touch. I got married and had a baby after college. I have been married for two years and we have started having problems. I ran into my friend from high school when I was back in our home town and we talked for a bit and she told me how she missed me and she loved me. I was in shock at first and the next day I realized how much she carred for me. Is this a sign that I ran into her after all these years. I do not really know what to do about these feelings and I want to not loose touch with her again.

Answer 1

I think your feelings are great right now because its that lust thing.  When you have problems in your current relationship it always makes your feelings for something new stronger.  But i don't know only you can make up your mind on this, only you truly know what you feel.  Hopefully if you go that way its not just lust for her.  GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 2

There is no higher power.

There is only the power of that d-d-d-d-d-olllar.

**** b*****s, get money.

She wants to use you to get money and material possessions, see?

Answer 3

probably not.  Try to work things out with your wife.  This may just be a test given by some higher power.  

Answer 4

Wow! Your story is mine.  I was in this same scenario years ago. I took the next step and we shared a kiss that I swear the "world stopped" needless to say we loved for about ten years after we saw each other and emotions became stronger and he wanted so much more of me.  You will have to take into consideration all that will come into play here. Your spouse, your child, and the other woman. Fate has a way of testing us and this is your test. I can't tell you what to do and how to act. But I loved him more than the first day our l;ips touched when I was 14 years old, but I lost him because I could not leave my family broken. It's been a month that we have not spoken and he broke it off. I am still hurting and it has affected how I look and feel about my husband. Good Luck.  

Answer 5

Forget her and be a man and stand by your wife and child,

Answer 6

If you can't bear to be apart from her or to lose her again and yet you know that you probably could now never just be 'friends', then I'd say it's love. Yeah.

Look, it's not a good thing breaking a marriage but it's better than lying and ending up doing something behind their back. Give her a bit of dignity for goodness sake.

Maybe you were always meant for each other. Who knows? You's both should know, you are the ones who know how you feel, right?