Hi me again, ss if boring people, been with hubby 22 years, (married for 2 of these, 2 kiddies 7 and 11). Hubby told me 4 weeks ago he doesn't love me but cares, in the meantime he says he does love me but needs space. He is spending time at his brothers, i thought there was another woman but i am now convinced there isn't as i know deffo he is at bros, last night he said to me that he is tired, tired of upsetting me, tired of being upset himself and tired of us arguing, before this i have continuously accused him of cheating, without any proof or real reason . , god knows why i did it, he is the kindest man ever, ok maybe i get upset that i don't have the same attention after all this time together but now i realise that yes i did actually, we still have s*x, have a laugh about things, he gets his mum to babysit so he can take me out, what i want to know is, last night he finally started talking,( cos i stopped having hysterics) he said that he needs space but we will be back together at sometime in the future, what do i do? give him an ultimatum as to how long i will give him or leave him to it and be patient, whats your views folks on the whole awful bloody mess, by the way he does spend some nights at home but in separate rooms and acts as normal, (except for you know what) in every other respect
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