Could my bf have gotten me pregnant without s*x?

Question

okay so i hung out with my boyfriend last weekend and we fooled around naked and he ended up cuming on his hand. He cleaned up a bit and after about 10 minutes he fingered me with the same hand. How big of a chance do you think i'm pregnant? I've been REALLY stressing. i should have started my period yesturday but i've only been having a SUPER SUPER SUPER light spotting and a little bit of cramping. I took a HPT today the 29th beacuse i missed my period on the 28th and it turned out negative. Do you think i might have taken it to early to show a positive sign or are the chances of me being pregnant too slim to even think of taking another test? Help me out PLEASE! i'm really really stressing and either i'm pregnant, or the stress is affecting my period.

Answer 1

Since you ovulate about 14 days before you get your period, even if you some sperm did get inside, they would not have had an egg available to fertilize.  

I strongly recommend the book "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" - it will teach you what you need to know about getting pregnant - so you can AVOID getting pregnant.

You need to know these things, because you are much too young to raise and support a child.

Answer 2

pregancy involves contact with the "private parts" and often very few of the sperms make it with that, so the chance is highly unlikely.

Answer 3

i think you definitely took the test too soon, but whether or not you're pregnant is still a maybe. i have heard that it can happen that way, though.

Answer 4

I don't think that you have anything to worry about.  I think that the problem is that you are stressing about it and it has effected your period.

Answer 5

Yes, there is a chance that you could be pregnant. Stressing out will really affect your period, so just relax, and try to not let it bug you to much. I think you took the test too soon, so i would suggest taking it after a couple weeks if your period doesnt show.

Good luck (: and relax.

Answer 6

If he washed his hands thoroughly I highly doubt you are pregnant.  Stress can definitely affect your period.

Answer 7

should have thought about that before messin around

Answer 8

thts impossible

Answer 9

Uh oh, somebody's pregnant.  Here's a little known fact: a guy blowing a load in his hand, wiping it off then fingering a broad 10 minutes later is the leading cause of pregnancy in the United States.  It ends in pregnancy 15% more than actual intercourse.

Answer 10

stress, that is why, you can't be pregnant, physically impossible in the situation you described

Answer 11

ok, it;'s only been a day hunn. calm down.

yes you could be pregnant. that's a possiblilty. but you also couldn't be.

you should be more careful.

i can;t help you, you just need to calm down, take a test. then find out your future.

Answer 12

What you guys did seems a lot more responsible then a lot of those people that have unprotected s*x. I think the possibility is so small that you don't need to worry. In fact, the worrying is doing you more harm, and can be giving you the symptoms and making you miss your period.

Answer 13

I cannot even imagine the odds of you being pregnant.  Stop worrying!  Your period is jacked up from stress, not pregnancy!

Answer 14

When you go back to school, sign up for the s*x ed class.  You cannot get pregnant from what you have described.  Pregnancy requires s*x, which clearly you are not ready for, so please do not have s*x until you are capable of dealing with any possible consequences.  Don't waste any more money on pregnancy tests, you cannot be pregnant if you didn't have s*x.

Stinkfinger:

Why are you even answering this?  Isn't there another section you can be trolling?  What if this girl actually believes your stupid and incorrect answer?  Get a life, go troll elsewhere.  And if you actually believe your answer to be true, you need to be sitting right next to the asker in the s*x ed class.

Answer 15

a lady will get pregnant only if they got s*x,,finger canot get u preggy,,ure just stressed thats why ure period did not come out yet,,or maybe ure only delayed,,dont stressed ureself with something which is not to be worried,,with,,,and even the pregnancy test is only taken when u are delayed 1 onwards week,,,,but i assure u ure not preggy as long as u did not end to having s*x