Could my boyfriend be g*y or just really anal about things...LOL (serious tho)?

Question

So, my boyfriend of 7months...he's super clean, shaves everything so nice, no butt or grund*e hair...he tans, which is ok...he bought boy short underwear at first...then bikni underwear, then upgraded to a bathing suit thong..? he even carries a compact. he thinks i dont know about that but, c'mon. im a chick and ive been around plenty of g*y' guys. Even that i can deal with. He says he wears the underwear for me, cause i like it. And i do, i do. but, all of it put together is making me wonder. PLus...our s*x life is fantastic. it really is. It's kinky, daring and he does get into my physique but he really likes his bum touched and "other stuff"...and i mean really. And in the end no matter if i get pleasured or not...it always ends with b-play for him. Is this weird...I've been with a Bi guy before and even he wasnt this bad. Id be ok if he just admitted he was bi...or even g*y, but he hasnt. he says hes totally turned off by the idea.

has anyone had someone like this?

keep in mind, i am very open minded and so is he. i am not for or against this I just want to know how to approach the situation without making him feel bad about what he's into or who he is. I am accepting it, obviously, but he is kinda ocd...if i mention something he'll be wigging on it constantly...how should i approach the situation?

Answer 1

maybe he just likes to take care of himself by being a little more feminine.

metrosexual?  maybe?  maybe in denial?

i like my men a little more manly and robust but hey...whatever floats your boat!

Answer 2

He is g*y or bi. A compact?No guy buys that.

Answer 3

I do think he is homosexual, if not possibly bisexual. And there is nothing wrong with it. Many guys are afraid to admit it though. Talk to him about this, just ask him honestly. Because in most cases, you will never know for sure unless you just talk to him about it.

Answer 4

hahahaha wow good pun.

Answer 5

I think if your s*x life is fantastic there's your answer. he's obviously attracted to you and likes being with you. at the most he's bi but he says he doesn't have an interest in guys so believe him, i'd say. he just is very very effeminate which is okay and you like him and you like how he looks in his skimpy underwear. so what's the problem? don't worry about it, love. I'm sure he's just hot for you!

Answer 6

I do not think he is g*y. He might be bi or metro sexual.

Answer 7

Accept that he isn't either g*y or hetero, he is a woman. You say you aren't closed minded but then you say those are g*y characteristics. You are so funny.

Answer 8

I have done things sexually that I knew made my partner more excited. It made her more excited so that made me more excited. Maybe he just does stuff for you so you get turned on more? Have you asked him if he is bi? After 7 months I think you could ask him if he is bi or not.

Are you really complaining that this guy is clean and wears stuff for you?  

Answer 9

He might be metro-sexual.

You could just try alluding to the problem.

Whoa sorry i'm tyring here.

Or ask him and try not to say anything that push his buttons.

But really the butt thing does feel good, and i'm surprised a lot of other guys don't do it haha.

Answer 10

Maybe he just likes stronger orgasms men have the prostate down there and when it's stimulated you get a better o****m :P

He could be bi or something, or maybe he's just the ideal man all straight women want!

Answer 11

well,he might be bi...i mean,he loves his bum to be touched and,shaving?,well,most g*y guys do such...about short underwear,well,that's normal,i mean,every guy can buy short underwear...

Answer 12

The male gspot is located up the a**s so its gonna feel good around there. There's millions of sensitive nerve endings so pleasurable feelings around there. Plenty of straight guys like getting touched around there

As for the other things thats just good hygeine and personal care. You can't complain there.

Answer 13

haha

im with the other girl i like my men manly r what ever  lol lol