Could someone explain to me what this means ?

Question

Last night i had a little fallout with my boyfriend, and i was upset so i went to talk to my friend, who is a male and a really good friend and i was talking to him then he went really funny on me so i said to him why you being such an ****, didn't know you had that much of a problem with me

and his reply was...

I haven't got a problem with you and you know that, but i have got a problem with you beating yourself up over your him (my boyfriend) And i don't know what he means by that properly could someone try to explain please ?

thank you x

Answer 1

He loves you and doesn't like to see you get hurt. He's just protecting you like an older brother would

Answer 2

he si just angry that you maybe letting yourself get down and depressed by this bf of yours also sounds like he may be romantically interested in you  

Answer 3

The guy friend is saying "why are you making such a huge deal out of it, maybe also suggesting you always feel gluityy for the argumentts etcc

hope that helps

Answer 4

Well, I have no idea what you were telling your friend.  But it sounds like you either:

A) Are giving him way too much importance and stressing yourself out

or

B) You are blaming yourself for what he's doing

Answer 5

Well one it sounds like your male mate cares for you, and it also might be your male friend likes you as in if he was with you he would treat you so much better. Well when someone said's that, it means that they don't want to see you upset over him all the time.

Get over him and look for someone new. Basically

Answer 6

He means that he thinks your boyfriend is a total loser who doesn't deserve you! He thinks that for you to be upsetting yourself over  such a waste of space is total stupidity,

and chances are he loves you himself and feels watching your relationship with your boyfriend is like watching you crashing at high speed and not being able to save you!

speak to him about it and clear the air with him don't let b/f's loose you friends.

Answer 7

Your friend doesn't want to see you blame yourself for something that your boyfriend did. I'm assuming he wants to see you happy and whatever you are fighting with your boyfriend over is probably not important to your friend what is important is your happiness.

Answer 8

it could mean that you are a good friend to him, and he hates seeing you hurt over something like that..

Answer 9

maybe he fancies you and it bothers him when you go on about your boyfriend

xoxox

Answer 10

Well its obvious he thinks your boyfriends a Jerk. Thats why he`s annoyed at you for putting up with him. He fancies you himself and is basically saying he wouldnt treat you like that so why are you putting up with him. Perhaps if you were free he would date you in an instance.

Answer 11

It means your boyfriend is an ***hole and you should get rid of him. The sooner the better

Answer 12

He thinks that you are getting worked up, and does not want to see you hurt.

Answer 13

Not that I'm saying for sure that is what's happening but......

Maybe just maybe, he's trying to get rid of your boyfriend so he can get in there with you. Just a thought

Answer 14

see women do this c**p all the time. what he meant is he's seen you be hurt, and blame yourself over dumb stuff done by your boy friend. he cares probably more than your boyfriend. what he's trying to convey is to stop taking the c**p from this douche, and more importantly, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. also, he's probably interested in being "more than friends"

Answer 15

You are boring him; you should be talking to your bf if that's who you have the problem with...

Answer 16

I just think it upset him that your bf had upset you, maybe your friend disapproves of him. It basically means don't let your BF get you down... not actually beating yourself up over him physically

Answer 17

i think that he might have a thing for you and doesnt particularly like your boyfriend and wishes it was him.. or maybe he just doesnt want to see you hurt..