Could the judge...could I...?

Question

I really want to live with my aunt in Alaska.I live in Washington.There is no abuse in my home.My mom has been in and out of mental hospitals.It's a long story.It has put a lot of pressure on me to watch my younger brother and sister.I am on the verge of a nervous breakdown form all this stress.I am bout to crack.Can I go live with my aunt and uncle in Alaska.Could they get guardian ship of me?I just don't fell happy in my home.I need a break.See the hard part would be getting my mom and dad to sign guardian ship to my aunt and uncle.My dad isn't even supposed to be in my house.He came to help my mom.My mom has a restraining order against him.They are getting back together.So technically my dad isn't even supposed to be in my house.My mom is still in the crisis triage.How do I convince my mom and dad to sign guardian sip over to my aunt and uncle?I miss my aunt SOOOOOO MUCH!We are practically soul mates.I cried my eyes last night because I miss her!I've always wanted to live with her.So please answer!

Please answer!

Thanks in advance!

Answer 1

.   When i was 16 i went to my Aunt's house in Wisconsin when i couldn't stand living at home any more.  The problem comes when Mom says that she didn't approve the move.  Would she do that.  If she did, you would have to come home.

Answer 2

Depends on how old you are.... you might be able to choose.

Answer 3

I have answered several of your questions now. This is how it is:

You are only 14 years old, you said so in your other posts. You can not legally be emancipated until 16. You will need the custodial parent to sign over guardianship to your Aunt, and your Aunt will have to abide by any terms the court of Washington sets for her. If you are serious about this, bring this topic up with your mother, maturely, don't get mad, don't yell, don't cry, don't pout, don't hold resentment if she denies your request. She is your mother after all. And right now, she controls your life weather you like it or not.

If she has been in and out of mental care, then surely you have a case worker, because from what I can see she has sole custody over you and the other children. And this enviroment is un-suitible for children. So if this is an exaggeration, please stop. Things like this aren't meant to be played with or over exaggerated.

Do your research, look up what it would take to file this paperwork, the costs to both your mother and your Aunt, and the length of time for the transfer of guardianship to be set in stone. Then bring it up with your mother, MATURELY. Like I stated above.

Good luck.