Could there be something wrong with him?

Question

I am 21 yrs old..i have a 3 year old son...i have been with my husband since my son was 5 months old...we have been ttc for 8 months and nothing! i am very nervous because he was with someone for 5 yrs and didnt use protection and never got pregnant..he is also 33. i am getting paranoid that he has a problem and this is very fustrating..please help me!!!

Answer 1

He could get tested to eliminate that fear you have. Your being nervous doesn't help the situation either. 33 is not old. Men can conceive for a looong time. Relax and if that doesn't help, get some suggestions from a doctor.

Answer 2

Go to the doctor and have his little swimmers checked out. That's the only way to know for sure. Although it may be his last partner that had the fertility problem and it can take about a year for a perfectly healthy couple to concieve. Good luck. Lots of BabyDust to you sweetie.

Answer 3

Find out when you are ovulating.  Keep track of your basal metabolic temperature with a basal thermometer and chart.  You have to do it every morning before getting out of bed for several monthes.  It will tell you when you ovulate.  If you are not ovulating you may need to take fertility medication.  The kit will tell you exactly how to do it.  It does work.

Answer 4

Just don't stress too much.  I was with my ex hubby for 5 years before I got pregnant then with my second hubby for 1 1/2 years before I got pregnant again.  My second hubby is and was still fertile.  I know it was not my age because I am only 24.  Give it some time and if it still doesn't work you can look into getting him tested.  Good luck to you.  

Answer 5

all you have to do is go to the doc and get him checked out....that way you will know for sure. no need to get paronoid about it..it will be ok. just get him checked out and see if there is anything wrong..if not..great..just keep on trying, im sure it will happen one day. you can also get yourself checked as well since things do tend to change in both women and men.