Could this act of abstaining for this long be known as a sexual fettish?

Question

Is the act of abstaining for this long known as a catagoric sexual act?

basically I am 16 have gone 32 days without masturbating. and i keep on wanting to go longer, has even caused me tonight to not have any sleep I dont wanna give in to the urges. I find it thrilling to know I can beat my previous records so ,could this act of abstaining for this long be known as a sexual fettish?

Answer 1

creepy

Answer 2

No it isn't a sexual fetish it's a denial of pleasure.  

Answer 3

No, since you are actually abstaining from something sexual. You can not be aroused by finding other things to do in order not to be aroused. It's a contradiction.

Answer 4

haha well i applaud you, sir, for I cannot go 3 hours without having to do the hanky panky. but idk. thats impressive though.

Answer 5

I'm not sure it's a fetish if you are abstaining from doing it.  You seem to be growing obsessed with the idea of not whacking off, but I dont think you can call that a fetish.

Answer 6

Hmmmm....you pose an interesting situation to ponder.

I wouldn't describe abstaining as long as possible as a sexual act/fetish. It would be better described as an internal desire or need to control your own biological responses, sort of a game of will power.

Harmless and interesting...

Answer 7

most definitely. i believe there are people who even get chastity belts put on by their mistresses or what have you.

Answer 8

I dunno...I went 20 once and finally I just realized that I'm torturing myself by suppressing it. It's much better to do a little maintenance now and then than to wake up to a wet dream and have splotched sheets...

...I have black comforters...  

Answer 9

wierdo.

Answer 10

No, I don't think its called a fetish, its more like a personal challenge of will power.

Answer 11

not at all it just means you're more relaxed and calmer. masturbation and getting "the horn" has traditionally been associated with hysterical women, whereas men are usually more concerned with food, tv and fishing

Answer 12

yep I guess you can call it that, if you like feeling that urge all the time, its a form and is a fetish

Answer 13

I don't know how it could be a fetish if you are not engaging in the act.

Answer 14

a fettigh is when u get turned on by sumthing not sexual...like feet

so not having s*x or masturbating isnt fettish, its just making u feel better about yourself...so good for you

Answer 15

i...guess...its kind of like tantric s*x- holding off the moment- a power struggle with yourself.

Answer 16

I wouldn't say it's a fetish. But, why are you making yourself so uncomfortable. It's normal and healthy to m********e. I hope you're at least having wet dreams to relieve yourself.

Answer 17

um, no.

You have probably by now experience nocturnal emmission, which is God's/Nature's/Your monkey ancestor's way of making your body able to give a sexual release, leaving no real reason for masturbating.

The best/healthiest/and most guilt-free s*x is with your Marriage partner, only.

by the way:

Marriage = One woman. One man.  For a lifetime.

Answer 18

No... that's not a fetish. Water sports is a fetish... getting off over a pair of shoes is a fetish.... always making your lover wear a diaper is a fetish.... but abstaining from masturbation is not a fetish.

Answer 19

Not a sexual fetish but what ever you do on your time is your bussiness dude.

Answer 20

No it's not a sexual fetish. A Sexual fetish has to be just that....sexual.

Abstinence is not a sexual fetish. So you cannot say you are kinky...