Could this be a reason girls never?

Question

I had a group of friends me best mates were boys and the mates were the girls, Im aquarian, and one of my traits is "detached Im very funny, good looking(as I've been told) cute, tall, sweet, nice, person, Ive noticed that my other mates (who aren't aquarians) talk to the girls, get close to them then eventually get a couple of girls liking them, I'm not shy, I just dont talk much 2 people who im not close to, or not really comfortable with.

I'm never invited out(but thats a different story) I've noticed there is one girl, very shy quiet, never really talks, and I got her to talk, made her laugh alot, and then she asking if I was going out today(inviting me), then i didn't really get "close" and I dont really build anything on that, maybe because Im detached, I thinking know I didn't want emotion and to get closer,so I just drifted away, and didn't talk to her

Do you think this could be the reason was I "detached" and didn't want to get close, because I'm starting to think it is

Answer 1

Don't be a stranger, when someone tries to get close make the most of it, regardless of what happens next.

Answer 2

It happens to me sometimes,I am a Leo and sometimes I make myself believe that I should be this and that because I'm a Leo and this is what it says in some astrology websites or book.But then my Libra friend comes and balances everything and then I see it's not all true.You should not believe you are 'detached' because some people said it or because you read it.I believe in astrology and i have to tell you that not everything it says about you is a hundred percent true.I think you should hang with this girl or go see a movie with her,make her feel good,that's a nice Aquarius characteristic.

Answer 3

no this is not true

Answer 4

theres more to astrology than your sun sign (star sign)

post us your exact date of birth, location and exact time of birth, then we will be able to tell you some more details about your personality, no 2 people from the same sun sign are the same, we all have different planets in different signs that make "me" . . .

or you could just try this link, but it might be more helpful if you post your birth details, so we can have more insight . . .

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/a...

Answer 5

well you should give her a chance , if you take your time you mait end up like me , 6 years with no girlfriend ...i'm gona go cry naw, just kidding:)

Answer 6

I don't think it's to do with starsign.

sounds like you are a bit shy, try not to worry, you will find your way with girls soon x

Answer 7

yea aquariana get sick of people really quik and move on like it was nothing

Answer 8

I think aquas are some of the most pleasant people in the zodiac to be around and talk to--b/c they are usually very intelligent and open-minded.  They are open to discussing anything, and I mean ANY topic/subject matter that you can dream up!

I think they can be "aloof" when they get bored (which could happen very easily), so that could be what you're talking about??

Answer 9

i dout its becos of your starsign that ur detached, u just need to be more friendly and easy to talk to.

Answer 10

What I find funny is that there seems to be this side of you that is complaining that all your friends seem to mesh and get close to the girls.  Then, you find a girl who seems to be shy and you get her to actually ask you to go do something...and you *detached* and just didn't talk to her?  You have to decide whether you want to be the loner or on the peripheral of having a close relationship like your friends seem to have.  If you like being that way, then continue to lure someone in, then detach and leave them wondering if they did something wrong!  Don't be so married to the idea that since you are an Aquarian you must always be detached or not form close relationships...it doesn't have to be that way. It may be true that it takes you a bit to warm up and feel comfortable, but my gosh, nothing ventured, nothing gained!

Answer 11

everyones different.

Answer 12

Nothing to do with your star sign.!!!

You are perhaps a bit shy.!!!

Answer 13

please don't fall into the trap of blaming you star sign for who you are, or thinking you're doomed to be a certain way because of it.  1 in 12 people can't possibly have the same personality, so forget that one for a start.

If you're good looking and a bit detached, it's a very intimidating combination for girls.  But there is no harm in being quiet and getting to know people rather than being the life and soul of the party, it just means you're a bit deeper than other people and take time to get to know them, which is not a bad thing.  Try to get to know girls as friends first and then build on that, there is no harm in taking your time