Could this do more harm then good?

Question

My little sister is 19. Her fiance is in the Army. He was told on Myspace yesterday about my sister being in the hospital. He was also told to ask my sister about what happened. Because she hasn't opened up about the situation she was in. She would tell him if given the chance. He hasn't contacted my sister yet. But he was on his Myspace today. My sister thinks either he's having a tough time thinking of what to say to her. Or someone else has been using his page. He has me added in his Myspace friends. Would it do more harm then good if I just asked him if someone else has been using his page?

Answer 1

No - let it be for now - he may be determining what to say to her - or how to address the situation - he's in the army and must have alot on his mind everyday - if he has not contacted anyone in your family for at least a week to see how your sister is, then yes, ask him what's up....

Answer 2

What is happening between him and your sister is none of your business.

Answer 3

you really should let the two of them work it out.  If he does just need some time to think he may feel pressured and upset by your approach.