Could u tell me is abortion wrong?

Question

if yes, tell me why, if no, tell me if i should do that (im not ready to be a mother even though im 32)

PS:not religious

Answer 1

It depends on the situation.  I don't think it should be used as a method of birth control.  At the age of 32, you are an adult.  You are better euipped to handle a situation like this.  My suggestion to you is to look into giving your baby up for adoption if you aren't prepared to care for it.  There are many people out there looking for babies to give good homes to.  Please just consider other options before making your final decision.  Abortion is only one option, and I speak from personal experience, it's an option that if you have any concience at all, will haunt you for the rest of your life.  Best of luck to you.

Answer 2

yes it is wrong that is killing a Innocent baby that did nothing you did it do not have one it is just very wrong

Answer 3

Abortion is wrong for more reasons then religious ones. There are numerous women that cannot have children, that are ready, and abortion destroys those women's chances of having a baby through adoption.

Unfortunately, you did the crime so now you should do the time, don't get pregnant if you aren't ready!! You aren't a 16 year old, you are 32 and should have by now had at least one friend that has gone through fertility problems. Fertility is a blessing and should not be taken for granted because abortion can harm your ability to get pregnant in the future. And even though you aren't ready for that baby, someone is!!!!

Answer 4

At 32 years old I would have thought you would have a better grasp on this. I truly believe that abortion is wrong. Not to mention that at 32 you should have at least some idea how to practise safe s*x. And if you don't, how do you justify revoking someone their chance in life because you didn't use common sense. That seems ridiculous. I just can't give you any reason why abortion is okay. There are thousands of people out there who are unable to have children, and want them so desperately. Then there are people like you who go "oh...oops I'm pregnant...better go flush 'er down the toilet" Like it's nothing. If you go out and get yourself pregnant, at least give the child a chance at life, and give someone else in the world a chance to be called Mommy or Daddy. And anyone out there who is going to say "it's not a baby per se, just a fetus" your an idiot.

Answer 5

right or wrong, it certainly shouldn't be used as a form of birth control.  If you don't want to get pregnant, don't have s*x.  Or use birth control AND condoms. Sounds to me that you are just trying to get everyone upset. Obviously everyone is going to argue about this. If you're serious, you should be talking to your partner and your doctor, not a bunch of strangers who are going to now go at each other's throats over the issue.  

Answer 6

Its completely your choice, but personally I believe its murder.

Answer 7

nobody can tell you weather this is right or wrong it is completely a personal thing and up to the individual!

I could not do it, however i totally supported my friend when she went through 1!

Good luck what ever you decide

Answer 8

It's your decision.  If it's something YOU are comfortable with, it isn't wrong.  If it would make you feel bad or guilty, then for you, it's wrong.  If you are unable to make the decision on your own, I would talk to a professional counselor about it. (But of course pick your 'counselor' carefully.  A crisis preganncy do everything possible to sway you against abortion.  Try  Planned Parenthood.  They have no vested interest in either choice, and will help you make the decision best for YOU.)  

Answer 9

I think it's wrong for people who use it for birth control.  I think that if a person thinks they are responsible enough to be having s*x, then they should be responsible enough to prepare to use birth control BEFORE the s*x act, not after the baby is already conceived.  I just think it's irresponsible.  Just my opinion.

Answer 10

abortion is still murder.  You are killing your unborn child before he/she even has the chance to live.  Give the baby up for adoption.

But you may also surprise yourself.  I wasn't ready when I found out I was pregnant with my first...but soon after I was ready and excited!

Answer 11

It is a very personal issue that everybody has a right to their opinion about. Form your own opinion, because no matter what anybody says or thinks, their opinion is not THE "right" one. Just the right one for them. If you don't feel right about it deep inside...well then don't do it. If you are okay with it - well others may not agree but they can't stop you either.

In any case, I would encourage you to strongly consider your other options first. Think about it long and hard - are you really not ready to be a mother, or is it still the shock that you are even pregnant affecting your thoughts? Could you provide for this baby? It is likely that after being pregnant awhile, and definitely after seeing your baby for the first time, your outlook would become completely different. Maybe you are more ready than you think. Nobody can make that decision for you, I am just saying to make sure you think about it and consider everything. Another option would be adoption - many couples out there cannot have their own children and would LOVE the opportunity to adopt your baby. You would be doing what is right for you by not trying to raise a child you believe you aren't ready to, AND you would be helping a couple out in ways you could not even imagine.

Good luck.

Answer 12

There are so many opinions to this question.  Yes it is wrong to kill a baby.  But many states don't deem a fetus a baby until they take their first breath.  

I understand you aren't ready to be a mother, but a lot of women are.  you can always think about adoption.

God Bless

Answer 13

im sorry but it annoys me when people say how its murder and all the rest of it.

abortion isnt for some people but i dont think its wrong. i think if put in the situation were you are pregnant and having the baby would seriously affect your life for the worst, or affect the childs life for the worse, then abortion isnt 'wrong'.

It is ending something before it becomes a life.

If you are thinking about getting an abortion, dont listen to the people that go on saying its murder.  You do what is RIGHT FOR YOU.

Answer 14

abortion is not for me but if it is the right decision for you I am not to judge.. I feel the thought on abortion is up to each individual.

Answer 15

I think abortion is wrong and this is why...

At the MOMENT of conception, cell division begins. Cell division does not happen in ANYTHING that is not alive, regardless if its a person, animal, a parasite, germs, ect. for anything to be considered "alive" it has cell division.

At 6 weeks old, a heart starts beating. All 4 chambers, just like your or my heart has.

By the 9th and 10th weeks the "fetus" can her thumb, turns somersaults, jumps, can squint to close out light, frown, swallow, and move her tongue.

By 12 weeks, EVERY organ that you and I have, to sustain our lives, is developed in the "fetus." Vocal chords are complete, and the "fetus" can and does sometimes cry. The "fetus" is capable of feeling pain at this time as well.

When an abortion by instrumentation is performed, the "fetus" actually tries to fights back and tries to move away from the instruments.

And all of these things combined, plus much much more, common sense tells me, that it IS a PERSON and if you have an abortion, you are taking a life because it *IS* a human being.

I really hope you wait and keep the baby. Even if you WERE trying to get pregnant, you would still feel like you are not ready to be a mother, that is normal. Until the moment that you hold your child in your arms, NO ONE thinks, with out a doubt in your mind, that they are ready for it, that they CAN be a good mother. Its natural...