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Could you ever trust someone again after they cheated on you?

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  1. No.

    Cheating is an unforgivable offense. I dont care if you were drunk, high or out if your mind.


  2. i have but then the jerk did it again...it depends on the situation tho...

  3. it may take awhile. it happened to me. i had a boyfriend that i was engaged to and found out that he had another girlfriend on the side that i didn't know about.

  4. it wouldn't be easy but yes, of course I could.  that person would have to earn the trust again though.  

  5. No.  I've tried.  I never got over it.  

  6. No because once a cheater always a cheater

  7. NOPE!! Once a cheater always a cheater. If they brake my trust once then they don't deserve to get it back.  

  8. Yes i would trust them again, Love doesn't stop just because they cheated......

  9. Depends on the situation, I guess.  

  10. Nope.

    My first wife had an affair 3 months into our marriage.

    I left her the day I found out.

    I have seen her once since then, it has been almost 3 years.

    We are still friends, But I would never trust her with my heart.

    She is obviously not trustworthy.

    I believe that people who let themselves be subject to abuse and unfaithfulness are weak. If you let that happen to you, and you do not do something about it.. I.e. LEAVE.

    Then you deserve what you get.


  11. no because if you did it once you will do it again  

  12. Once a cheater, always a cheater!

    you DESERVE better!!!! find someone else!!!! no questions asked.

  13. No never again because if that person really did love you and cared about you at all like they said the did then they would have never cheated on you in the first place.

  14. it will take time.

    but it won't be easy.

    they have to use their actions to prove that they can be trusted again.

    i hardly accept any major liars as i am never sure if they can be trusted ever again.

  15. Not 100%, but they want to change their attitude, probably I will forgive, but it is not trust.

  16. For me: nope

    i know a person that does it once, does it again twice...

    people don't change too much in the future.

    what they learn from childhood, they do it again in the adulthood...

    some might change and not do it again,  some might say

    "yea i'll change", but once they are alone, they go out and cheat....

    and then there are sometimes people who are addictive.

    addictive to cheating is like being addictive to cocaine.

    once you taste it, you cant stop doing it....

    if someone cheated on me,  for example my boyfriend, i would forgive him but not go back to him......i would tell him 'ye i forgive you, but i wont trust you anymore."

    so my answer is NO.

    I COULD NEVER TRUST SOMEONE AGAIN AFTER THEY CHEATED ON ME.


  17. NO.

    It's so unforgivable, I wouldn't even try. The trust would be completely lost.

  18. No!! The saying, "Once a cheater always a cheater" exists for a reason.

  19. Possibly, but not likely.  

  20. No. Because that shows that you easy going and cant stop yourself. That means that they win and you dont want that. They might do it again and again so to teach them a lesson i would not take them back.

  21. nup..a leopard doesnt change its spots..and a cheater doesnt stop cheating. of course they promise they will "it will never happen again..I promise" is the catch cry of a cheater

    dump them..move on..life aint that hard lol

  22. It would completely depend on the circumstances and the person.

  23. actually not really,you dont fully trust on that someone again or you will end up getting hurt.sumtimes a leopard will never change its spot.. wen they promise not to cheated on you again but in the end behind your back ,they did it again coz they know you will forgive them... anyway its up to you to decide,this is just from what ive experienced time and again...


  24. difficult to think you will, but don't let them ruin it for you, you will learn to trust and love again.

  25. i could trust someone after they cheat on me but they have to do a whoooooole lot to gain it back...coming from a girl who doesn't do second chances lol

  26. No.  I put faith in them in the first place to not do it.  If they do do it, then I know right there that they're looking for something else, with someone else, and they can certainly have that.  I won't want to be in their way, after all.

  27. I hate that saying! Just because you cheat once does NOT mean that you will do it again. I cheated on my boyfriend, and it was the biggest mistake of my life, I wish I could take it back. I will never cheat on anyone ever again, that's a promise i've made to myself and whoever I'm with.

    Yes I could trust someone again if they cheated on me. It would take time for them to earn it back though.

  28. Things always depend upon the person who had been cheated. There are times people choose to give a person another chance while some people don't. Although I believe even if the person who had been cheated try to trust the cheater again, things will never be the same as it was before. There will always be a thought of what if and a sense of fear...

  29. sometimes someone can cheat and it means nothing, but that doesnt mean it doesnt hurt and they wont do it again.

    i would personally not trust someone who cheated on me, but its your call.

  30. depends on the situation

  31. no. end of story.
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