I know somebody that she has been with the same guy for 5 years, it was a really good relationship in the first three years, 1 year of dating got engaged 2 weeks later found out they were pregnant, got married when she was six months pregnant, he worked she stayed home at home, she is not a great housekeeper, does laundry, and sometimes dishes small arguments between them over this issue and him always playing video games, well hurricane katrina happens she became sexually frustrated he wasn't in the mood for over a month he called her ugly she grabbed there 6 month old daughter and started walking she was going to head for the airport of course he stopped her and they worked things out. Well they got there own apartment relationship went back to normal, well they came into some money she wanted to invest but he wanted to buy a house so they did what he wanted because it wasn't worth the headaches in the relationship could of owned two condos out right and rented one out and stayed in the other I think that would have been smart, they were studio condos but she had drew out plans to turn them into three bedroom one baths condos. Well anyway right after they close on the house they find that she is pregnant. Well everything in there relationship is fine she still stays at home and he still works. Well during this pregnancy he called her names and started arguments and made her feel unattractive. She got a crush on her obgyn, and after the baby was 6 weeks old she asked her hubby for a divorce and told him she was in love with another man, they worked on there marriage duh because they are still married, but when the baby was 6 months old he choked her and she told him go ahead and kill her she was miserable being alive. She then asked for a divorce and he begged her to stay and promised it would never happen again was because what she had told him months prior and it built up and he burst, well she was fine with that or whatever, well i don't what happened but he has bunched her upside the head seems like for no reason at all, she can't remember why probably a stupid reason he doesn't remember doing it at all, he has swung his arm with a balled up fist and hit her in the armpit area. then for over a year nothing has happened, but latey he has been grabbing the back of her neck and her chin as to treat like a child when he is talking to her and he feels like she is ignoring him.
Question after hearing all this would you tell her to stay, leave, or work on her problems?
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