Couldn't stay hard for s*x? It was my first time whats wrong?

Question

I was about to have s*x with a girl last night and i couldnt get very hard just like aroused. I was forced to stick to oral. Whats wrong? Also I ejaculated while i wasnt all the way hard. Is that even possible its never happened before? I kept wondering what was wrong and it was pretty embarassing. It was my first ******* too i always thought it wouldnt be a problem.

Answer 1

You were over anxious; don't be so hard on yourself, when you're aroused sufficiently it will happen for you.

Answer 2

Hi,theres nothing wrong.You will probably have been nervous practise

makes perfect.Next time will be better & it will keep on getting better.

Good Luck

Answer 3

normal you will get better  

Answer 4

You might have been trying too hard to perform and got nervous or stressed. Each time should get easier. Just remember if you're with different girls, wear a condom. protect yourself and her.

Answer 5

Not with the right partner

or you had whiskey d**k

Answer 6

take it easy!!

you will can.

Answer 7

you didn't say how old you are... but maybe you didn't think you were doing the right thing.  the brain on your head (on your shoulders) was smarter than your other head; you know.  when you're sure you're doing the right thing and doing it with the right person, and you're old enough and prepared the the outcome of s*x; you'll do better.  Trust me.

Answer 8

cause it was your first time and hey oral is whats most important anyways lol...oh ya...but don't worry being your  first time you were really excited, worried, stressed, etc etc. about it so just remember practice makes perfect and just keep at it till ya get it right and i'm sure u will besides u got whats most important down so the rest will fall into place...don't worry

Answer 9

being nervous for one and don't get too upset as it happens to everyone at some time or another but if it continues go to your Dr

BTW high cholesterol can cause this over time