Cousin flirts with my boyfriend?

Question

They never have any alone time but when she's around him she gets a little too close and crosses the line big time. She'll bump her hip against his or come stand in his face makin sure he sees her. Stuff like that. He doesn't pay her anymore attn than he does anyone else but I don't like it @ all. I've told him and he doesn't really speak to her as much but she trys extra hard to get his attn. What should I do?

Answer 1

definitely tell her. but before you do that, talk to you boyfriend about it - i know you trust him more than your cousin so when you're talking to him try not to make it seem like you're attacking him but you're attacking your cousin. Like, "hey 'shes' been hella flirting with you... ooooooh somebody likes you! but seriously, not to be over dramatic but is it me or does it seem like she is flirting w. you?" Get his word and approval first before confronting her. Then when you do, talk to her and also use the same approach - try not to let your frustrations seems as if you're attacking her but be "casual" and if she doesn't believe you, then use your man's "word" and how he's getting that vibe...

sorry, about this. And i don't know your cousin but she seems really b*tchy to be doing that. It's one thing if its "friends" or girls you know but you're cousin?! If anything she should be hanging out w. him to surprise your or something haha

Answer 2

cuss her out and tell her that her doesn't want her and get your boyfriend to tell her the same that way there's no misunderstanding.

Answer 3

Kick her ***!