Coworker who says i look mean?

Question

this guy at my place of work always tries to spark a conversation with what music i like, he touches on my shoulder or upper back without saying anything, sometimes he may stare and smiles, and he also says there she goes when i enter a room. he also complements me multiple in the same day and i think it wasnt sincere. so why would he act like this. okay the reason why i asked is because he act like he didnt care for me at all i saw him as a foe and i dont understand why, if he does like me, made smart remarks about me when i first started working at the company he confronted me about being a fake person because i didnt engage in conversation with the other employees.last week when i was leaving he was walking ahead of me in the parking lot asking if i was tired i said no and drove off. today he was staring and smiling at me, i asked what was wrong with him his reply was whats wrong with you.i dont know too much about males because in russia where im from its disrespectful

Answer 1

I think that perhaps he is 2 minds. one:he fancies you and really wants you. two; he doesn't think he should fancy you. maybe he thinks that fancying some one from another country is wrong but sometimes he forgets and is nice to you but then he remembers his idea of your origin and has to make out he doesn't fanncy you by being nasty or making snide comments. maybe you should try to get to know him to get that idea out of his head and become friends in time.

Answer 2

This guy does not know how to act appropriately. Don't worry about it, there are many of them out there, you just were lucky to get this one. I would point out that he always has some criticism ready for you, and could you be more positive?

Answer 3

umm, thats weird, and um that disrespectful anywhere, but idk idk

Answer 4

You ask me...the guy is just a D*ck!  He probably sees you as easy prey to bully.  Maybe you should toughen up and lay it all out on the line. In other words...ask him what his deal is (ie.  Do you have a problem with me?).  If he wont answer you or he gives you a tacky response...then the guy is a piece of sh*t, period.  And if he touches you tell him not to!  You honestly cant let the man touch you out of the blue especially if you dont like him...he could get in huge trouble!  You need to draw the line somewhere...you just have to toughen up to do it!  And if he is talkin c**p on you to give his ego some leverage....than laugh because thats the only reason why he woud do it! And if my assessment on this guy is wrong...then he is probably just a weird-geeky-nerd type and doesnt know how to act towards you because he likes you.  And it is just his unskillful and tacky way of trying to flirt with you! I guarantee its one of the two, hope that helps.