My step-mother wants to be called "Mama" by my children, as well as my nieces and nephews. I have two siblings and the oldest sib had the first grandchild 3 years ago. He and his wife felt uncomfortable with our step-mom being called Mama, but were too chicken too say anything, so instead they just don't call her anything, and let her call herself that.
Second brother and his wife felt that because first hadn't said anything, they shouldn't either. Same deal, they call her nothing. I just had a baby and was the only one with balls enough to tell her that I am Mama and only I am Mama. Said she can be Grandma or Nana, but she through a fit.
She and my father insist that I'm being unfair, selfish, rude, ridiculous... I have no right to say what she can and can't be called, I'm just insecure, etc. PLUS, other sibs joined in and said they don't want her called that either, so now I'm the ring-leader/trouble maker.
4 months after my son was born and she still isn;t speaking to me over this.
Thoughts? Opinions?
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