Cried in class...sophormore girl..READ

Question

What would you do if you saw a student crying in class and you were already worried about her. Top of the year and incredibly weell-liked and involved. Losing weight and avoiding her frieds

Answer 1

Well I think if you know her well, give her an opportunity to talk with you if she wants.  Say to her that you are there if she ever needs you and that if she wants she can call you and you can talk about it.  But if she doesn't want to talk about it, no use pushing it because she won't talk about it if she doesn't want to.  But just tell her you're there if there's a time in the future.

If you don't know her well, you could try approaching her, but I don't think she'll take that well.  She might just think you're a bit weird.  So maybe just talk to her briefly and say you noticed she was feeling down and it can be hard to talk to friends especially if they're involved in the problem and you want to be a good person and if she wants to talk about it, that you will be more than happy to help.

IF you can't get her to talk and she still seems down, try talking to the school counselor or the school nurse, someone higher up that can help you decide what to do.  They can help you figure out what is the best measure to take given your school.  Good luck!

Answer 2

ask her wats wrong wats the worst dat can happen? you get cussed out?det into a fight?rumorsget spread? but dont worry its gewd to check on someone that is sad and make sure dey r ok

Answer 3

You could talk to her after class and try and become friends with her, you know see whats going on if your that concerned. The crying in calls can mean that she might be bipolar, or have bipolar depression or disoreder. Or it could just simply be something that happened like a break up. If it is depression and other stuff that can make you loose weight cause most of the time your appite changes. She could easliy be bulemic or anorexic too.

Right know the only way you'll probably know is if you get to know her and she whats going on with her.

Answer 4

Losing weight?Avoiding friends..Not good.

She might be,sorry if i seem judgemental,but she might be bulemic or anorexic..

She might be depressed..

I was depressed last year,and if someone even asked me a question,I hid my face in my hands and cried..

Answer 5

No way to tell whats really going on, unless you go and talk to her. Don't pressure her to tell you what is going on, but just let her know that you are there for her if she wants to talk and that you won't judge her for whatever it is that she's going through. Also make sure she knows that you won't go around telling anyone, although if she is hurting herself or someone is hurting her it would definitely be in her best interest to let a trustworthy adult know about the situation. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

I agree with these guys, definitely try to talk to her, but when you do so make sure it is genuine and treat her like a person, don't judge her for whatever she tells you. Be there for her and try to understand. Let her know that she can talk to you and that you won't tell anyone, and DON'T. A hug never hurts.