Cruel cruel women?

Question

Some people here think that if a woman gets pregnant and the man's not happy with that, well its just too bad its the man's fault - he 'should have kept it in his pants'. It takes two to tango.

Yet clearly women are telling men they are on the pill when they are not, or swear that if they get pregnant they will terminate only to change their minds when its too late.

Then the man will bound to her for the rest of his life and have to pay her child support and can't afford to live properly or start a family with another woman

Is this not cruel entrapment and serious abuse of power?

I feel so sorry for them men this happens to and I am actually becoming ashamed to be female

Your thoughts?

Answer 1

I don't feel sorry for them at all. They could have used a condom.

Anyway they are just paying child support. It is the Mom who has to take care of the baby 24/7, bathing wiping everything included, and then build his/her character, be there for him/her as family and worry about them and try to make sure they stay out of trouble.

I think the men get out easy.

Answer 2

I Don't feel sorry for men like that at All.If a Man does in fact not want a child or is not ready for one He should not have s*x because you risk pregnancy even when you are being safe.If he really is going to have s*x and risk it then he should not Believe a female who says she is on the pill and even if she is and takes it regularly he should still use a condom as another form of protection on top of it to decrease the risk of pregnancy.If A man or a women is going to have s*x both of them should be responsible enough And smart enough to Know it can case children and no one should be having s*x Tell They get that and understand that.If a guy really does not want a kid Better yet He should get a vasectomy.And if the female does not she should get her tubes tide both of them can fail but its less likely to fail then anything else.

Answer 3

If you lie, you should accept the consequences.  Period.

Answer 4

trust no one use a condom.. I don't feel sorry for them at all..

Answer 5

There is only one conventional way to have a baby and thats through s*x.   Why would you have s*x with a woman who you would not want to have a child with.  

How many unwanted children, who are neglected and abused are created every day just because two people couldn't...not just the man...couldn't use self control or think to use a freakin condom.

For heaven's sake...go buy a magazine and  jar of vaselin.

Answer 6

I am ashamed you feel ashamed to be a woman..  That is just not good..

Woman are not the enemy.  NOR or men.  they BOTH play a part in ALL this.  

It took two of them to make the baby and sometimes it takes two to pay to raise the baby..

BOTH knew how to have a baby and BOTH knew how to NOT have one..  

SO they are BOTH to blame....  

Oh poor poor men does NOT cut it any more..  NOR is the poor poor woman either...

How ever that child came to be, they are NOW both parents and need to act like it..

Answer 7

I agree with the 1st awnser... If these people had more commonsense they would use a condom then the man wouldn't have to be worried about being 'trapped' into fatherhood.

But yes i have a best friend who is a guy, his gf of a year came off the pill for 3 months and didn't tell him she was trying to get pregnant and even when she found out she was pregnant she still didn't tell him until she was 11 weeks along...now thats a scheming ***** for you, luckily he is happy he is going to be a daddy but now has trust issues with his gf and i don't blame him!

Answer 8

I think that if it is a one night thing then its his problem he should of used a condom but if its more of a relationship then you are right there are some women out there that will do that to trap there man in a relationship or whatever.  Men have to be careful and maybe not rush into a sexual relationship so quickly until they actually know and trust the person.  Although thats still not to say that a women won't do it later down the track in the relationship either.

Answer 9

It does take two to tango, but men are generally the ones that leave.

Tough. You have s*x, you risk pregnancy. Period.

I feel ashamed to be the same species as the men who hear the woman is pregnant and never see their child, never care for them or offer any support.

It's not female entrapment most of the time. Men and women have s*x, so men and women should take care of the children.

Answer 10

I think that it IS a man's responsibility to ensure that contraception is being used (by using his own) and if he doesn't do that, then he is stupid and needs to pay the price (literally) for this. It is no good crying about being trapped when you haven't taken the necessary precautions to ensure that doesn't happen. The only time I would feel sorry for the man is if they are in a long term, committed relationship and they trust the woman they are sleeping with. If she then stops taking birth control without his knowledge, then that is completely different. I know women does this a lot and it disgusts me.

Answer 11

I agree that it takes 2 to tango. But in that same respect, so what if she says she's on the pill, he should be wearing a condom anyway for everyone's health.

Answer 12

I think it is both people's responsibility to use contraception. You can never be too careful!

If you really don't want a baby, then you need to abstain from s*x.

I think women who lie about being on the pill are nutcases and the chap should be in a relationship long enough with her to realize this before he gets into bed with her.