Cruel nasty little bully in class

Question

In my karate class there is this one little girl she is like 8-9 or something but she is messed up. (I am 16) She is so vile and nasty bullies the other kids outside of class (held one girl down and cut her hair off, then she came crying to the teacher saying she was trying to help the girl but it went horribly wrong and teacher just ate it up) But thing is during class she is a perfect angel. She will always say "good morning teacher, I hope you are well today. She never causes trouble durring class, she will always ask highly inteligent questions. It is horrible next to me shhe is teachers favorite. I told him my "concerns" and he looked into them but none of the girls will speak up they are all between 5-6. After the "haircut" it took 3 months for the little girl to tell me what truly happened. I can't video tape her. BUT HELP- oh if I go to the girls parents acusing their daughter with out any prook that will end very badly. Because they try to be good parents but they will take their daughters side over anything a stranger says. Please Help!

oh trust me I tried during a fight I "accidently" forgot she was younger then me and gave her a royal pounding, until teacher made me forfeit. (rats) not the mature response but I didn't make her bleed or anything I just kept throwing her down to the floor (there were mats) hard until she got the wind knocked out of her. Nobody ever catches her because she always does things out of sight from the adults (for awhile she even had lookouts but I recognized them to easily so she stopped) She will always tell part of the truth and make her seem like it was an acident by admiting it before the poor victim gets a chance to talk. All of her victims are 5-6 and are the shy girls who are too afraid to speak up. have told the teacher what I know but he can't find anything wrong with her, because she has also been more sneaky then ever and has manipulated girls into saying that they hurt themselves (while she is helping them fix up their boo boos- looking like a saint- it makes me sick)

Answer 1

The problem with talking to the parents of the victims is that they may start going to your instructor saying, "Joey made us aware of this...." thinking they are giving you a feather in your cap but making your instructor mad at you for possibly undermining his business.

Talk to the other older more trusted students to see if they have seen this behavior from her.  Especially if any adult students may have seen signs of this behavior.  If enough senior students report the same things to your instructor then he needs to take notice.  

Do you have a phone with a camera?  Nothing like some video or still picture evidence.

Eventually you have to figure out if you still have respect for your instructor.  If not, you may need to find another school.

Answer 2

If this is true...

Speak the parents of the girls/kids she is picking on.  If you talk to the bully's parents, they will automatically be on the defensive.  So, yes, that will be difficult.

If you talk to the parents of the kids she is picking on they will demand that the instructor looks into the situation.  EVEN IF they can't prove anything the other parents will still be suspicious and will begin to watch more carefully from the point forward.

Eventually, she will get caught at this point because the reality of it is that adults are simply much smarter than a 9 year old.

Tell the other parents...thats your best recourse.

Answer 3

That's quite a problem, but it's pretty cool of you to want to try to help

I see why you feel the urge to give her a pounding, but unfortunately, that sort of thing probably only makes it worse

like a lot of bullies, this girl's behavior probably comes from herself feeling out of control or bullied about something, and you'd just be adding more fire to the flame by trying to "teach her a lesson"

The fact is, it's the teacher's responsibility, so I would say once again to express your concerns to him, as it is in your teacher's interest to act

although I doubt any of the other children's parents would sue, there's a good chance they may stop bringing their children to class, which is very bad for business

ultimately, the school probably can't afford to have one student driving away others, so it's up to your teacher to take responsibility for the situation; if he chooses to only believe the "angel" that's his choice, but he'll be the one having to deal with dwindling numbers of students

Answer 4

Pull the teacher aside in private and tell her what the little girl is doing. If this girl is doing things like cutting other girls hair off who knows what else could happen, this could be a liability for the organization. The teacher wouldn't want to be sued or anything.  

Answer 5

Tell her parents when they pick her up.

Answer 6

Not to worry...

One of these days she is in for a rude awakening!

It's just a matter of time before she picks on the wrong kid (probably somebody new.)