Crush Problems....??

Question

And I've known this person for about 7-8 years.

And I'm starting to like him..

But, In the way of that..

There's his best friend..

and I went out with his best friend..

He took my first kiss..

etc..

in other words he was my first real boyfriend.

But this guy that I like just got out of a relationship..

and his PM on msn is usually sad..

or depressed sounding..

example: if the point of life is to get heartbroken then I've already lived life to its fullest.

What should I do?...

And..

I've heard from others that my ex still has feelings for me...

=/

Answer 1

first off..

decide which of these fellas you want more.

you cant try to get both of them or like both of them when they are best friends because they will think that you are to confused on who you like.

if you pick mister depressed then you should try to be the sunshine in his life, the person he looks forward to talking to because you make him laugh and smile and feel good.

if you pick his best friend then you should just not try to be with mister depressed. you already know that your ex has feelings for you so you know if you wanted him you could have him.

so find out which you want most first.

goodluck! =]

Answer 2

**** your ex's feelings. He's your ex for a reason.

Do what makes you happy. If you like him and would like to show him the world on the bright side, date him.