Crush on my indian friends wife?

Question

I've a Crush on my Friends Wife who is an indian and beautiful. We both are of same age and her hubby is 10 yrs older to her. Indians are traditionally very conservative and so is the problem here. She talks to me with so much ease face to face. On the phone she sounds little shy. She also once told me abt one of her hubby's friend (indian) proposing her and asked me abt my opinion. That time I didnt have the same feelings towards her so I told her to politely reject him since she and the other man were both married and it is not a good relationship to pursue. I am also married with kids but off late she is into my thoughts day and night. I am having lot of trouble concentrating on my work. I also feel like meeting her everyday and talking to her. We both have families and I love my family very much. At the same time I desperately want to share my feelings with her even though she likes it or not becoz I am unable to bear the pain. Help me out please from this complicated situation....

Answer 1

if you really cared about her you wouldnt say "i want to share my feelings with her even though she likes it or not becoz i am unable to bare the pain."  this is obviously lust of infatuation, not love.  with true love, you care more about the other persons well being than your own.  (the same goes for your so-called love for your family.)

Answer 2

Are you lonely?  Perhaps you are drawn to her because she listens to you.  Regardless, you are putting both of your families at risk.  Seek counseling to learn to cope with your feelings ~ and ~ for someone more appropriate and safe to listen to you.

Answer 3

You have a inappropriate crush.  You are basically committing a major sin.  Ride it out and I promise, she will be out of your mind, like most strong crushes do in time.  Act appropriate in the meanwhile.

Answer 4

You know it's wrong, especially if you already both have families. If you didn't want commitment you shouldn't have got married in the first place.

Answer 5

its so wrong.