Cybersex...?

Question

When it comes to cybersex (text not cam) how real do you believe it is?

Would you be uncomfortable in a chat room where two people are cybering in public?

Why or why not?

Answer 1

i don't know what it is, or where to go to have it

where do i have to go to experience this thing?

Answer 2

personally...I dont see what people get out of it.

"we are sitting on the beach at sunset...sharing a glass of wine"

gee can we just go to beach!

"I'm kissing you neck now"

umm still not feeling it....

"nibbling your side"

ya..haha that tickles...not (YAWN)

I just have little imagination when it come to pretend s*x...why talk about it..when you can do it!

Answer 3

( in monotone voice)

oh oh oh..do me do me do me..yes yes yes..o****m...oh...

that was good..

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

anyhow...a few men...have tried to get me to cyber s*x...i tried once, but never got into it..so now i either tell them i have no interest..or i just make jokes..( like the one above)

most are pretty cool about it..they either talk about other things...or just leave..( some without saying anything...RUDE)

others have gotten pretty mad and have called me sl*t for it...

my response to that is huh? o_O ?

Answer 4

Cybersex is a form of interactive erotica.

They use their imagination just like a person reading a romance novel. Like any p**n, is just a fantasy of s*x.

Answer 5

Trust me, it's VERY real. But if people are going to do that, they ought to keep it confined to private IMs or e-mails.

Answer 6

I think cybersex can be a release for some people, but it's not a bonding experience like real life s*x. There's no emotional connection, which would take away the purpose of s*x for me.

It's usually expected that cybersex will take place in chat rooms - that's why I prefer forums like Y!A, where people can get to know each other better and have discussions. I don't think I'd feel uncomfortable, because I know I can leave if I really don't like it.

Answer 7

I used to chat in AOL and many times I was responsible for initiating a group silent prayer or a group cyber s*x with all interested parties in the room taking part.  Most of the time it started off with the line, "I am going to kiss the next person whose message appear below this"

***kiss***

I used to wear rubber on my fingers when I did this.  Protection you know?

Answer 8

To me, cybering is like talking dirty, but without the benefit of hearing vocal inflection and lacking the sensitivity to emotion... its meaningless and does absolutely nothing for me sexually.  Its not real s*x, even though it is a sexual act.  Its like kissing... perhaps in some ways dirtier, perhaps in other ways less dirty.  Its sexual, extreme enough not to be appropriate for the public... and should be regarded as a sexual act.  But does it constitute an actual form of s*x?  I dont personally think so.  Yes, I would be uncomfortable... not because I find it s**y... and not because I find it weird... but because they are doing in public.  Like having s*x in a public part and walking in on it... its not right.  It ought to be embarrassing for them... the fact that its not proves its just a kink, not an actual intimate act... their lack of shame is what makes it wrong

Answer 9

Just hit the ignore bottem, Cybersex is not real, its fake s*x between two people who probably have lied about what they look like and thier level of flexibility/size/stemina etc

Answer 10

its a great thought,and can get vary exciting,its hard to tell how real the other person is,but the things they say,really gets your imagination going..For its fun and exciting to have a chat with someone this way,but its even better if your face to face in person...Theres nothing wrong with a little x*x talk,keeps the heart pumping!!

Answer 11

I couldn't chat sexually with someone w/o some visual reference

Answer 12

The s*x in "cybersex" can be as real as the people participating believe it is.  As long as both are legally consenting adults, I don't see the harm in it.  It's like masturbating with real live stream of info to m********e to.

And if I was chatting in a non-sexual chat room and two or however many members were cybering in public...yes, I'd feel uncomfortable.  But if you're in a s*x based chat room, you kinda asked to be exposed to such behavior.

Answer 13

It can be pretty real if you're really into it. Everything is anonymous and it's all text so it really shouldn't cause any harm to anybody. I read an interesting article saying that in a way cybersex can be good for people who may have trouble controlling their urges and instead of them going out and doing something stupid (i.e rape) they can instead just turn to their computer and role play their sexual fantasies through the chat rooms with other people. And unlike regular s*x, cybersex allows to to "have s*x" without any fear of an STD or something.

I know this sounds really weired but it does make sense in a way.

As for your second question, no I wouldn't feel uncomfortable if I was in a chat room with "cybering" going on. I really don't care. If you feel uncomfortable, leave the chat room.

Answer 14

It's usually just s*x obssessed teenagers and old men that do it. As a kid when the internert was recently popular it was fun to experiment.

Answer 15

I once got carried away and ruined my brand new keyboard. I say ruined - I actually mean that I am now the proud father of two keyboard-shaped children. Never again...

Answer 16

For me, in my younger days... It's how I met a gf and we were together for about two years...  It was great at the time, and real... but self serving.  As Theater of the mind, it's as real as you wanna make it.

Cybering in public... It'd be fodder for a few well placed jokes, that's for sure.  Cyber exhibitionism?  LMAO

Answer 17

from what I understand and have heard it could all be a sham, or two people actually self pleasing themselves with the words typed by each other, seems to me it takes a good mind's eye to "see" the other person...lol.....and if I did it, I'd Im the person and do it there, not actually within the chat room with others present, unless it was a group thing...lol