Cynical towards relationships?

Question

Is it okay to have this feeling of being cynical in all relationships?

I dont know if the right person for me is even out there lol.

Why is it so hard to find a woman who will like you for who you are instead of what you have?

Are all of the good women avoiding a good man lol?

Life is decent lol.

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Details I have been burned by women time and time again. I do not go to bars or clubs. I find them in college and I am in college also.

I take them out here and there show them the real me and not fronts and they end up cheating or lying constantly hiding stuff from me and keeping me in the dark. You kind of get tired of the same old song and dance.

Answer 1

Too bad there is such a big age difference. My sister is looking for someone that does not go to bars and just wants a good man. Like I told her....someone is out there, don't give up hope.

Answer 2

I think most people would be considering what you've dealt with. No good women are not avoiding good men. Sane women want a good relationship with a man they can trust. I think you should keep doing what you are be your self always if those girls don't like it scr#w them. Maybe you should look for a girl a little different than the ones you've been with. Someone that isn't in your usual group of likes a different package may lead you to what you've been looking for and a girl that can actually appreciate a great man!

Answer 3

if women keep doing this to you then my best advice would be to go for somebody completely different. I had men do the same thing to me and i was extremely cynical towards relationships. then i took a chance on a guy who was the complete opposite of what i normally went for and who was willing to do damage control on how i felt about men and relationships. in the end i ended up marrying this man. good luck

Answer 4

I saw once one of your comments on here and oike you're style.

email me..

Answer 5

Try dating someone older.  College women want to have fun.  If they find a guy that will take them out and pay for things, they figure use 'em and dump 'em.

You need someone who has been there.  I  know to appreciate a guy that doesn't go out a lot.  I try to contribute to my relationship as much as he does.

We are few but we are out there.

Answer 6

Just have multiple relationships like me, one of them is always good at any given time

Answer 7

Why is it that all men think women are gold-digging and all women think that men are after one thing?  Obviously it is a matter of perspective.  Read the women's questions on here and you will see that it is not all about money or what a man can offer them - oftentimes these women are supporting their men because they LOVE them.  You have to realize that you are young, in college, as are the women you are dating.  With time you will find more mature women and also even when you find them you will see that relationships are complicated, plain and simple.

Answer 8

there are a lot of bad people out there.. don't give up!  There are also a lot of good people!  Luckily, you are only needing to meet one of them!