Lately, our one-year-old son has been crying hysterically whenever I leave the room. Whenever my husband has tried to comfort him in my absense, he screams, pushes away and reaches out for me. I know this is a normal stage of toddlerhood and "this too shall pass," so my question is more about my husband. It never seems to bother him that the baby does this. But if it were ME he was pushing away, it would break my heart. Is it just a mom thing? Are dads wired differently? Any dads (or moms) also going through this?
In fact, my husband doesn't even try to comfort the baby anymore. He just lets him scream on the floor while I'm trying to make dinner or tend to our preschooler. =:o(
Personally, I think the baby doesn't respond to him well because my husband has always given up too easily and passed him back to me. I don't know, what do you think?
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