DESPERATE FOR AN ANS might be the daddy might not be the daddy what should i do????

Question

ok a month ago i found out i was going to be a daddy but just this last week i also found out that theres a possibility that i could not be the daddy. And the time of when she last had s*x with this other guy adds up where she could be pregnant by him, but theres that possibility it could be mine aswell. So what do i do???? I mean do i need to be there and support her thru her pregnacy or not, im a little upset but i keep thinking what if it is mine and i was not there during her pregnacy but then i keep thinking well what if its not my kid then was it a waste? Im just so confused right now plz ans back

Answer 1

be there for her either way she will need your support. wait till the baby is born then the doctors can see if it is yours.

Answer 2

You cannot think of it being a waste...

There is just no way to know now, so would you rather look back and find out this is your baby and did not participate in the pregnancy?

If this is your first child, it usually means alot to the man, and every step of the way if such an experience, and you will never be able to get that back.

If the baby turns out to not be yours, wish her the best of luck and send her on her way!!

Good luck, but sorry to say it's going to be a long road ahead

Answer 3

Demand DNA testing.

Answer 4

you should be there for her because you dont know if its your and like you said, you dont want to regret not being there throughout her pregnancy if its yours. Is the other possible dad going to be in her life? If he's not and the kid turns out to be his then it wouldnt be a waste because you're giving her support.