DID he play me to get rid of this kid?10easy points?

Question

Okay i was pregnant with a lad i really like!

but i got rid of it becuase we wasnt ready,but he said h**l cheer me up after,and we can start to see eachother and do things.But i look on his bebo a few hours before and it says love you from this other girl thats ment to be his 'mate' and he repiled

:( xxxxxxxxx

is this becuase he likes her ,and cant say love you?

He also said on his personal message 'I Feel Knda Run Down"and in his lil message bit it says :'I Would Do Anything For Love Anything '

&&

"Your My Everything Ive Ever Wanted"

whats this even mean

please help!

thanks so much .

Answer 1

nahh he just wants u soo hes cut himself off frm every girl thats y its a sad face=]]

but VERY bad choice on getting rid of the baby--it was ur choice to get pregnant nd u have to deal with the consequences.i hope u feel really guilty....nothing ca "cheer you up" when u just gave away ur precious baby.

Answer 2

THIS IS THE 5TH TIME YOU HAVE ASKED THIS QUESTION

IN THE LAST THREE  HOURS!

Answer 3

What a prick.  It sounds like he said all that stuff just so he didn't have to take responsibility for the kid.

Answer 4

Hi,

You really need to sit down and talk to him.

You both been through a life changing moment and this is causing the two of you to feel distanced from one another.

You really need to talk it through and find out if you can work through this or better to call it a day.

Lx

Answer 5

I think to just assume that he has 'played' you to get rid of the baby is incorrect.  But it doesnt sound from your text that you were in a relationship with the lad.  It also sounds like the relationship was/is quite casual.  (if Im wrong then sorry)

Please - becareful when having s*x - youve had to make a really hard decision here, dont repeat the pattern.

It was both your decisions to abort the baby, if you didnt want to then nothing that lad would have said would have changed your mind.  I promise, no matter how grovelly he got, so dont blame him.  Your old enough to have s*x, then your old enough to take responsibility for your own actions.

It does sound like he has moved on though, sorry.

Answer 6

Sorry he sounds like a dirtbag.

He couldnt man up to his responsibilities in the first place.

Not to mention the flirting, possibly more.

Your better off without him. You must be going through a lot right now with all of the other things. I am sorry.

Answer 7

he talked you into doing what was convenient for him.

im sorry hun but you need to move on x

Answer 8

Wow I think you should forget about that loser.

Answer 9

you should've keep the kid. he played you

Answer 10

Sweetie.. you need to go talk to him.

Answer 11

As you said, you weren't ready. Dump him, and get yourself on some effective contraception please.

Is it me, or do I have the feeling that you are under 16?

Answer 12

I think he just wanted rid of the responsibility. I mean if there is no child to tie you both down then he's a free man as far as he's concerned.

Look, just talk to him properly about this cos it's a serious situation which could have quite an impact on ur life

gd luck x

Answer 13

Hun. Talk to him, if he isn't what you deserve leave him, you would deserve better.

Answer 14

Wait a minute -- you were pregnant by a guy who talked you into an abortion by offering to START to see each other more and do things"?  What kind of relationship is THAT?  Answer:  NONE.

You've been played.  Stop trying to analyze every word this bum says, and go by his actions, instead.  Actions speak louder than words:  He was using you for s*x.  

Kick his azz to the curb, get smart and wise up.

Answer 15

yes he just did not want you to have the baby so he played you i think he likes this other girl follow what you believe at the end of the day no one else can decide for you what to do you need to make the decision your self also you should sit down and talk to him about it. sorry if this answer didn't help

Answer 16

U dont needa tawk to his ***!!!u dont deserve to explain the **** that hes doing.u already know wats going on,dont act like u dont know wen u do.f ur thinking it than hes doing it...and he should be saying ur his everything to u!!!u deserve them words,not nobody else...and i know it wasnt cheap getting rid of that baby,yeah i know...but u dont needa tawk to him.atleast get on ur bebo and tawk to sum guy and just lie outa ur *** and tell him hes ur everything and leave on the page and let him c what u wrote to some otha guy...try that

Answer 17

You should talk to him about it you will feel a lot better

hope everything works out

Answer 18

I would not fret to much sweety, I have a b/f and I still tell alot of guys i love them.

I do it b/c i consider them great friends

I would talk to him about it though, see if a relationship between you two is worth the trouble.

I am sorry to hear that you decided to give up the baby, I am pro-choice, but I know how hard it had to be to do that. Know one should ever have to make that decision... you should have been more careful...ppl need to understand that mistakes do happen...its sad that you can get rid of some mistakes but you did what was best for you and him... there was other ways around it but everyone that has had a child in the past knows it would be so hard to give the child up for adoption...afterwards

<3 good luck

Answer 19

Here is some advice. Learn to type.

More advice. Don't get involved in his internet c**p, it's all a joke.

Answer 20

Sit down and talk to him...about everything. That should help.

Answer 21

Ahh poor you and him, its a toughy maybe he is venting to some close female in cyberspace, just to get a perspective and support. You both need to talk it through, but he probally doesn't want to stress you...  

Having a child is a big commitment and will bring on many responsiblities, as long as the descison was mutual and communication is open it should be fine with time

Sometime men can take the termination of a potential baby as a bit of a rejection of them in the relationship too, yeah its sounds crazy and he might be all over the place emotionally... maybe he needs to feel the love from You?  it a very testing time for both parties and you need to be there for eachother

Sorry I dont really know what te other girl's angle here is?

good luck, love and light.

Answer 22

seems to me that he likes this other girl alot more than he makes out.

You should be using protection if having s*x, especially if you think your man is playing you.

As well as stopping you getting pregnant there are also many sexual diseases that can ruin your life.

Answer 23

If you're having to judge how much he cares about you though bebo, he doesn't love you.

Really, he used you. Forget about him.

Answer 24

Well maybe he did; you should never let somebody else, including the man you love, influence your decision to abort your baby. But what's done is done. Learn from your mistakes. You could always leave him and get a new lad as well as a new child. Find somebody who wants the same things as you, such as a baby and marriage if that is what you want. Personally, I would rather do it the old fashioned way, get married to a man who had a decent job and provide for me, then have a baby. However, what is right for one person is not right for another. So decide if this man is right for you. It does not seem he is.By the way, are you from Ireland or scottland, I noticed you used the word lad. I'm from NY and that term does not seem common where I love except for people from Ireland or scottland.

Answer 25

Dump him. Tell him you saw his bebo and you think it's time for y'all to go y'all own separate ways. Your welcome.

Answer 26

It doesn't look good at the moment, but plenty of people say "love you" and "x*x" to there friends, as i know when i was younger i did. Ask him and be straight, don't take lies and please reword your details as its very complicated to understand.

Answer 27

well it seems he's a little desperate and will get with anyone just for the sake of it. Don't fall for it, it seems like he'll only use you...

you're more than that...

good luck :)