DO I TAKE HIM BACK OR NOt?

Question

My daughter has never been there for her. H e only saw her once when she was 2 weeks, now she is 3 months. He is moe worried about bein takinof child support than helpin out with the baby. wat do i do

Answer 1

make his *** pay child support

Answer 2

You should tell him that he has to prove himself first because he hasn't been around, tell him in a nice way. If he can't handle that then he is there for the wrong reasons for real.

Answer 3

Hey There,

I tell you what, its a sad world we live in now a days that we have to worry about men leaving their own children in spite of money. This situation that your facing is a very difficult one. So here's what I suggest. Explain to the baby's father that if he truley wants to be a part of his childs life, he needs to assume responsibility, help pay for things that she needs, and be around more often. I would not suggest leaving the baby with him until you are totally satisfied with his turn around. As for you, your main concern right now should be your child growing up without a father, nce you get that situation figured out then you can worry about what you need in your personal life. If this "man" still refuses to help you out, take him to court, get a child support order, find a great new guy who loves you and the baby. Belive it or not, there are tons of nice guys out there. Good Luck!!

Answer 4

He'll only hold you back if his biggest worry is child support. This man is mean and clearly not going anywhere - let him rot and take care of your daughter yourself.  

Answer 5

Do what u must do but see the gift that you have been given.

Look deep into the life you have created here and see the beauty.

In every problem there is a gift or something u can learn.

U can choose craziness or choose to see the brighter things.

Answer 6

I have been in the same situation with some variances.  I think you need to think of what is best for both you and your daughter.  Do you want her to grow up being called a ***** by a man who is suppose to love and support her?  

If he has not already made time for her in his life I do not think he will make a real effort, so do you want him coming in and out of her life as he pleases?  I think it is harder for a child (especially girls) to grow up without a father but you sound like you sincerely care for this little girl and it will work out for the better without him.  

Answer 7

Your baby is the only garinted love you have.. She will love you no matter what, and you have to do the best you can for her.. Do you think that he is good enough for her? You are the only one who knows..

Answer 8

its up to u if u want to take him back because u know why u broke up with him all u have to do is write a list of all the bad things he had put u through and a list of all the good things he have put u through and see is the good things over come the bad things because people always makes mistake and take ur time don't be in a rush if u don't really want to.

Answer 9

If you take him back after his neglect, than he will only want you when it is convenient for him. He will say he loves you and wants you back when he wants something from you, but when he doesn't, he will drop you like a hot rock. Better to cut your losses now and take care of your child without him. He is using you.