DO U THiNK THIS IS RiGHT ?! ...?

Question

well, basically.. im 13 years old... & all my m8z get fingered, giv head & toss boys off ... ive been asked 2 do it.. & i delcined.. because.. well.. because i nearly gagged at the thought.. i dnt want 2 b called friged [never up 4 anything] bt i also dnt wna do something like that i dnt wna do ..

my question is... wat do u think bout my friends ?

& wat do u think of my choice ?

thnx =] xx

Answer 1

who care if people call you names the names they call you will only last a little while but you made a good decision if you dont want to do it dont...plus who cares what they think when you get out of high school your probably never going to see them again..

Answer 2

I think you made the right choice. And your friends are doing wrong.

But please learn how to spell better. Ok?

Answer 3

nasty

Answer 4

GOOOOO YOOOOOOOU! =D

Honestlyy.. i think your friends are little wee slags that will later regret their actions and feel worthless for acting like cheap sluttss. Sorryy, i know their you friends.

I think you are absoluty making the right choice! dont do anything you don't feel comfortable with! Dont feel pressurred by your friends into it! you will be appreciated and valued more for this later because, the truth is boys at this age are only interested in girls your age, like your fiends for one thing! they will soon see sense, but it will be your friends that are left with regrets.

xox

:)

Answer 5

nobody at that age should be saying yes 2 all that stuff. u were rite 2 sat no. just think of the reps they hav earned themselves. a really wise person 1s told me "if u dress like a s**t then guys will treat u like 1" that was from a guy by the way. im not exactly sure wat is has 2 do w/ the topic but still. once u earn that rep its soooooooo hard to lose it. my advise is dont.

Answer 6

I think that your friends are making mistakes by doing such things at 13, but it shows a lot of responsibility and self-respect to say no, like you did. Good job and don't worry about being frigid, that has nothing to do with it.

Answer 7

Sweetie I think you are making the rite choice & dont let anyone pressure u into doing anything u dont wanna do. Save your self for the rite one till you get married or at least till you older. You hv your whole life for things like that. stay in school graduate & have fun as a teenager. your friends mk choices but dont let them choose for you. ok?

Answer 8

13?

Whoa.

When I was 13 I couldn't think about that stuff being done to me or me giving it... I think you made the BEST decision not to do it. All you're friends could get STD's and have many health problems in the future. Don't be pressured. If you don't want to do it, don't...

Do it with the one you love... Not some random guy..

Answer 9

You're making the right decision! If you're not into an activity, you shouldn't be doing it. s*x (and similar things) are not about impressing your friends and making sure people like you. Those activities are to please yourself and your partner, hopefully someone you really care about. So, if you're not going to like doing something, then DON'T!

Also at 13, people lie. They make up stories about what they have and haven't done. So some of the girls who are saying they've messed around with boys may not have. Boys are especially prone to this kind of story telling. Don't feel pressured to do something you're not interested in.

I have never met a 13 year old who was emotionally ready to have s*x or engage in sexual activities. Teens that age don't know what they want, aren't prepared for the responsibilities that come with s*x, and generally are happier if they just avoid the whole mess.

Keep in mind that is IS possible to get a sexually transmitted disease from oral s*x. So if one of the guys you went with has been with someone who had an infection, you could catch it. So save that kind of activity for later with a partner that you really care about and trust. Not some weasely 13 year old boy.

You're making the right choice here. You're awfully young for s*x AND it doesn't really appeal to you. Don't let your friends (or anyone else) force you into trying something that you don't want. You'll be glad you waited later when you can make the decision for yourself when you're ready.

Answer 10

I think you made the right choice and if i were you i would try to make new friends with people who were less S****y.

Answer 11

that was a very good choice on your part

13 year olds should not be doing these things

your friends are wrong

maybe you should explain to them that its wrong

Answer 12

I think it's ABSOLUTELY AWESOME that you're not giving in to peer pressure and not doing things you feel uncomfortable doing! Your friends are gross... I think it's creepy that they're doing things like that so young. I bet they'll each have some sort of STD in a couple of years.... I know you're from the UK, but 1 in 4 US teen girls (yes, GIRLS ONLY, this is not even ALL teens) has some sort of STD. You should keep that in mind. It's not worth it. Besides, at your age, whatever the guy does is probably going to hurt/not feel good at all. SERIOUSLY!!!

Answer 13

i think some of them are prbably making it up but even if thy r telling the truth i think u shud wait till ur ready and in the long run ull get more respect for it x

Answer 14

I think your friends need to learn more self-esteem.

You are doing the right thing. Get started in that stuff early, and you will regret it for the rest of your miserable life.

At 13, there are a million other things to be doing and thinking about. I saw my son's 12-year old friend making out with his girlfriend and it nearly made me sick.

I think your choice is TERRIFIC!

Answer 15

Imagine the reputations your friends have now earned themselves.  You will be much more respected in peoples' eyes.  They'll also have kids by different guys, STDs, and all sorts of oral infections from giving blow     jobs.  Yes, giving a guy a blow      job opens you up to oral infections.

I think it might be a good idea to get a better set of friends who actually have some morals, before you end up with that same reputation just by hanging around them.

Answer 16

I think you're on the right track. My friends have done a lot more things than me and I don't care what they do to s***w up their OWN life. They are people I've known for at least five years and we all love eachother to death. But if they want that as their reputation, that's okay, it's not mine.

xoxo

Answer 17

I think you're friends are the reason for a new STD. They need to stop doing what they're soing. You have made an amazing decision even tho it's hard to not conform to what your friends are doing. Keep your decision, and don't care what others think about it. Good luck!