DO YOU BELIEVE THERE IS A LIMIT TO LOVE??

Question

I want to clarify right from the start that I am not talking about abusive violent relationships or ones where one of them can't seem to stop sleeping with everyboby they can. I am talking about a God given special kind of love like in the Titanic or The Notebook. First do you believe this exists and if you actually have it what would you be willing to endure for it? Not all love is this kind it is rare to find it but things happen missunderstandings that are not talked about and that grow inside your mind until that is how you see everything said or done, but the love is still there. What do you do then? What would you do if you were the one who felt wronged or the one who was left because the other one felt you didn't trust them but you really did. In this particular case I will say I have had several other relationships that were not good or healthy they were the kind I mentioned above but this one isn't anything like that. But I have fears of rejection and abandonment and we have always talked about them and I work through them by not being afraid to talk to him about them . He always took it personal when I repeatedly told him it had nothing to do with him. Well I expressed feelings along this line a week or so ago and he said enough is enough I wasn't trusting him or his love for me when I really was. This hurts unbelievably and I wonder is there really such a thing as a love that can't die? If you surrender your whole heart to someone and truly love them no matter the circumstances what then? do you fight for it? Do you just let them go and go through the rest of your life with this love for them and wait til Heaven where they say "Sooo sorry honey I didn't know what I was doing"? If you are the guy do you think his feelings about this are justified? would you feel this way and why? PLS only real heartfelt answers.

Answer 1

I didn't read your long paragraph.

However, YES, there is limits to love.

Answer 2

to be honest, no I don't really believe it, but then again I do. I don't really think there is a limit to love but what hurts so very much, is misunderstanding, betrayel and when that person hurts your own loved ones. What would i be willing to endure for that "love"?...not very much. First that person would have to love me enough not to put me into pain or make me endure things i shouldn't.

It seems that you have many fears and worries about love. Why is that? Is it perhaps becuase of earlier bad expereinces? Bad things happen everyday, but your worrying won't stop them.

If you surrenendered your whole heart to him.....THEN no you don't sit back and wait or watch.... you go and fight for it.

Of course it hurts that he would think that you don't trust him enough, that is so painful. So that is why you have to make him understand the true story, that you truly really love him.

If i were you girl, i'd would meet him up as soon as possible and make things for the better.

Best wishes to you, and think about this, with open eyes so that you can't make a mistake. Look at things the way they really are.

If i were him, I don't think i would feel hurt by your questions because i would believe you when you said it had nothing to do with me, and i would try to understand your situation and try to make you feel better.

Answer 3

Whoa whoa whoa WHOA.

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Answer 4

It sounds like you haven't grown up with a very good example of true love and happy families. Yes of course love can be everlasting and forever! Let me give you some examples from my everyday life:

My parents have been married for twenty one years (they had me right off the bat, which tells you how old I am, haha) and have four children. They've been through some rough spells, but they got over them because of two things: their faith in god and the belief that they were meant to be together for forever, and their love for their children. I can tell you honestly that they are still madly in love with each other, and my dad is always flirting with my mom when he gets home. (Kind weird, but unbelievably cute). My mom was 19 when she married him, but they knew they were supposed to be together for forever, and they will be!

I married my husband just very recently and I thank God everyday for the miracle that our love is. You are right in saying that love seems to be corrupted everywhere we look, but it doesn't always have to be that way. Really, my religion helps. I'm Mormon, and while that probably sounds hokey to you, its not what you think. We believe that we will be married in the next life, even after death, that we and our families will be able to be together for forever. Something about that makes us realize that when we get married, thats it. There's our soulmate. You won't find many divorces among Mormons.

So how can you find love? If you don't trust the man you're in love with right now, thats okay. You've been through a lot of hurt, and trust--while easily broken--takes a very long time to build up. If he doesn't understand that, then maybe he's not who you're meant to be with. You need to find someone that you can completely give your heart to, that you can surrender your entire life to. You will know when that's right, because no matter what it is you believe, God will let you know thats who you need to be with. You'll know from the pit of your soul that if you aren't with them, you'll feel empty. He'll feel that same way too. Patience is the key to finding love, and you must not settle for "good enough". There is a prince charming out there for you, I promise.

I wish you all the luck in the world in finding your soulmate. Don't give up, its worth it!

Answer 5

ok first... i believe that no love can ever be as good as God's love, and no human love could ever compare. however yes God does give ppl love in the world, God will send the right pearson, however he will do it on his time, no ours. thats the struggle point, we want it all now. But because God's love is so great, he may mke us wait, which gives us time to boubt, and be tempted. but God will always provide

Answer 6

From the Spiritual point of view love is limitless and boundless.  Mere mortals are limited and limit love.